How to get a girlfriend

So…This is going to be pretty gay, but I need relationship/psychological advice. Please be nice.
I’m pretty…I work two jobs…I have a good sense of humor…and I go to school and take 19 hrs. I’m 23 and in college. I’ve been here 4 1/2 years and have only had 1 serious relationship since college of 7 months. he pretty much broke my heart by saying he wanted to get married then left me…
I’m tired of guys who treat me like crap in college…I don’t think I’ve even kissed a guy in months and choose to stay at home on the weekends and do my hw. because i knooooow all I ever attract is butthole guys. What is wrong with me and how the heck do I get a man that doesn’t still drink like a frat boy and who actually wants to share my joys and laugh with me and be with me and not just drink and party…I want a man who understands me and what I need. It only leads me to believe there is something wrong with me? Anyways, please help. What do I do…I sit at home on the weekends and wonder when it’s gonna get better? I sweaar every guy I’ve dated since college is an asshole, yet my ex was in his 30s. What is it with me? any advice? thanks!!!!

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We have been going strong for quite sometime now, and things have been going pretty good (regular dates, no fights, and plenty of smiles). However recently we both have been pretty stressed about different things in our lives. We are still together, but our attention was focused elsewhere for the moment. Now that things are kind of back to normal in terms of our daily lives, it seems that its a lot less give and take from her end. I am the one that makes the phone calls, and I am the one that schedules the dates. I don’t want to confront her about it if I don’t have to, but I don’t want to break up with her either. We both believe that we are perfect for each other, and we have both decided on a commitment. But it is really irritating to feel like the only one to all the work. ANY ADVICE??

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I like this one girl and she like me but she is six months older than me. Is it okay if the girl is older? I want to ask her to the eighth grade dance we both going on Olivia limo and we going to the same high school what should I do

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I have never kept a relationship for over 32 days, i’m entering a new relationship and i really don’t want to screw this one up! Please does anyone have any advice to keep and relationship healthy. Please ANY advice. Except we both have issues with having sex before marriage so please help!

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well actually it is something my FATHER says- and my mom as well but not so extreme.
that most guys are liars and cheaters and all they want is to get in a girl’s pants and they will tell her anything to get in her pants, and it is better to not date and wait around on guys and to focus on your school work! because these young boys will give you an std or get you pregnant, and they don’t care. they won’t take care of the child.
And my father always basically even kept my sisters and I away from our uncles and we couldnt go to our friends houses if they had dadas..WOW
I’m 19 now and I feel ike that advice really hurt me. I make a lot of assumptions about all guys I am with and then again I’m kind of trusting because I feel like teh advice I recieved was so extreme that I go against it completely sometimes

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I’ma make this short cuz i know i hate reading things when there long. lol.
but i have to get advice.
if you have it.
I dated this boy for like 5 months on and off.
and then we had hung out a while back,
and then yesterday he came over.
we had an amazing time.
and i thought he liked me, or whatever.
but then i dropped him off, and later that night we were talking on the phone.
i asked him out, and he said that I lived to far away.
and i only live like thirty miles away from him.
and he doesn’t seem like he likes me more than a friend.
what’s the deal?
augggh.
i like him alot!!

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What should I expect?
I would really like to hear from people with experience as well.

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Ok im honestly 13 and in 8th grade and I asked a girl named olivia out to go see G.I. Joe this friday. I really like her but I haven’t been on a date in a really long time and i don’t know what to say or do and i don’t want to mess up because i really really like her. Please help!!!

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Ok im honestly 13 and in 8th grade and I asked a girl named olivia out to go see G.I. Joe this friday. I really like her but I haven’t been on a date in a really long time and i don’t know what to say or do and i don’t want to mess up because i really really like her. Please help!!!

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