How to get a girlfriend

Hi. I recently turned 24 and came to the realization that I’ve never had a steady girlfriend. I’ve been on a few dates through high school and college, but can count the number of girls I’ve kissed or been anything close to physically intimate with on one hand. I went to a military college so I didn’t exactly have a lot of options within the student body, and I’m in the military now so I move around a lot and my job is demanding and takes a lot of my time. I am, however, active in my church and frequent clubs and bars with my roomates every week or so.
For some reason, I always end up in the “friend zone” with girls I feel an attraction to, or everything will be going fine for a while until things start to heat up…then she always disappears when I confess my lack of “experience.”
I’m 5′ 9″, in good shape, make decent wages for someone my age, and planning on going to grad school after my first operational tour, so I feel like I have a few things going for me.
Any advice?

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Ok im honestly 13 and in 8th grade and I asked a girl named olivia out to go see G.I. Joe this friday. I really like her but I haven’t been on a date in a really long time and i don’t know what to say or do and i don’t want to mess up because i really really like her. Please help!!!

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I’ve been friends with this totally perfect guy for a few months now and the entire time I’ve been interested in making something more of it, recently I made a move and he was kinda skeptical about it claiming to have ‘never really thought about it before’ and saying that he’s just a normal straight guy but he’s agreed to go out on ONE date with me:
problem is I don’t know what to talk about, we already know each other as friends and I don’t want him to think that this is just a normal two friends together type thing - otherwise he’ll just think that our relationship can’t go further than just being friends. So I was hoping that people might have some conversation advice for me.

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I am working with this girl who is okay. I think i like her. Currently, me and her are making fun each other but not intetnionaly. An example of how i do it is by calling her retarded but i don’t really mean and i noe she does not take it personally. I also try to help in any way i can with her work. I want to ask her for dinner before we go off to college. Our job ends in a week. HOw can i do this?? any tips and advice. I think i really like this girl. Can you be more detailed. I want to make it romantic and touch her heart at the same time

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Me and my girlfriend’s one year anniversary is on friday. I bought her a nice ring and we are planning on going to dinner. I’m taking her to the place we had our first date.
What should I do the rest of the day? She said she wants to spend time with me, she doesn’t want a big hoopla. Nothing sexual or overnight, please.

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I’ve been dating this guy for about a month. I usually rush but I dont know when its the right time to ask. I asked 2weeks ago and he wasnt ready. How long should is it usually until it can be exclusive or see it progressing. Im afraid of jumping the gun on this again because I really like him and Im nervous about it. was it too soon to ask? and should I just stop worrying about it and just have fun. I havent seen him in almost 2weeks now and im nervous about that too, hes busy trying to pass the bar.

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I work at the local grocery store, where I have recently met this girl.
We kind of exchange comments every so often, but nothing of importance. ALL business related “chit-chat”
Anyway, I have finally decided to “man-up” and ask this girl out. I know for a fact that shes single.
I myself, am around 5′10 and weigh like . . . 185 pounds. I would consider myself to be good looking, nothing fancy just typical.
This girl is really AMAZING, shes doesn’t even wear make-up and yet she has the face of a Goddess. I am so amazed by her that I want to shake her fathers hand, lol.
So, basically I need some advice.
What should I say to her ?
Should I ask her out at work or outside of work ?
Where should we go ?
I’m sooo LOST !!
I just turned 18 and I have never had a date, I’ve just been so wrapped up in school and taking care of my mom, etc.
But, now that I have free time I’d like to date.
PLEASE ANY TIPS ARE WELCOME !

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okay i’m 18 and moving to san francisco in a couple of days to go 2 school. I am very good at giving relationship advice. I give relationship advice to all my friends, it almost seems like I know men and women when it comes to relationships like the back of my hand. The thing is that I have had the worst luck with relationships and can’t seem to find someone. I have been single for a year. I consider myself to be an attractive person with a great personality, I wear nice clothing and present myself in a professional mature way, but why is it that I can’t seem to find a date. I always seem to attract the losers with no brains that will come up to anyone. Please tell me what I’m doing wrong!

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Well first, I notice many people stating that you learn from personal experience, but you are talking about someone that is presently in a bad relationship, so learning from retrospect really isn’t possible at this early time.
It is easier to observe others from outside the relationship and be able to see the problems they might be experiencing. Giving advice to others may also be a way of helping ones self. Thinking outloud and helping others may eventually help the one giving the advice to examine their own relationship problems.
The person giving the advice is emotionally attached to their partner and there is a lot of emotional baggage to consider. When they give advice, they are looking at the outside parties with no personal involvment, so it is easier to just state facts of what they should do. Usually the recieving party doesn’t follow the advice anyway, because they have emotional attachments themselves.
If you are either the giving or recieving party in this situation, take this time to really think about your relationship, and get out of it if it is bad!
To the guy who’s girlfriend left after 9 years. Don’t try to judge every situation on yours, and just hand out advice based on your ex’s actions. If she left you after 9 years, it wasn’t just the advice of someone else. She must’ve not been satisfied in your relationship anymore. Move on and find someone that really cares about you. Oh yeah, and maybe marry the woman before nine years passes.

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ok so let me give the run down first then the situation
I am 19 years old,go to community college.I have never dated a guy,kissed a guy,or had sex.i do not believe in sex before marriage.I do not drive or have a license,but that’s a different story.
I had to do a group project for my communications class.We got put in the groups by the teacher.Well this guy in my group is really hott. He is nice and sweet.I really want to talk to him.I need advice on how to talk to him.I need to find out if he has a gf or if he even wants one.I am not an outgoing person so this is very hard for me.I need help.he is got so many good things about him.I really am ready for my first bf but I need help
Thx 4 ur time (please be nice!)

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