How to get a girlfriend

I met this Girl a couple of weeks back. I got her number on the first meet after her and a friend approached me. Then a week later they admit “they both thought i am hot”
I must admit I am not very experienced with women and thought you guys/girls may be able to help.
I like this girl and Friday Nite sent a text saying something like:
Me: Alrite Louisa How are u? u got any plans 4 the weekend? What u up2 2nite (i dont wanna here it if its dirty. Lol) + do drunk I love yous count?
To which she responds. Can’t remember what though.
So we then continue to text through Saturday
Then Saturday Nite, just before 11, she sends.
Her: I Love u!
Me: Really?
Her: Yep
Me: An I am drunk i love u? or serious?
Her: I Love u
Saturday Morning:
Her: What u up2 2day? So what u said “I am drunk i love u” last nite True? or False?
Me: (respond True in a roundabout way) and ask what she thinks of me? (Probably really AFC in PUA terms i Know)
Her: Unfortunately No response (so i text her again)
Me: Ok Cool, I get the Message. Blah Blah Blah (something about my plans for the day)
Her: Sorry Babes, was in the bath. Your where? (in my book a lame excuse) Thus still not answering my question “what do you think about me?”
Also after she text me Saturday nite with “I love u” for the second time.
Me: Do you want to take this further?
Her: (Again no reply to the question asked, but she did reply) Hows ur Nite?
Due to my lack of experience with women. I do not know if this is serious or mind games. Please Help!
Note: I played mind games to begin with 2 show both interest and disinterest. In order to look unneedy.
Also Note: I have found it hard to get to talk to on her own (in person) she is always with a close female friend of hers (making me kind of uncomfortable). Which I think is ruining are progress. Again Any Advice Welcomed.
Am i not being Dominant enough? Should I be pushing the relationship forward? with out asking silly questions like:
“what do you think of me?”
and “do u want to take this further?”
These girls want to keep seeing me. So there must be some interest.
I havent done much Kino (touching) or kissed. Not used to this. Should I be making these moves to check for her compliance?
I am confused she is sending me mixed messages and I don’t know what to do next. HELP!
Sorry for the Ranting Post. Any Advice would be greatly appreciated. Many Thanks

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Met this girl through an online dating site, we met for drinks and hit it off. She is gorgeous, smart, successful, and there was definitely chemistry between us. A week later, I took her out to dinner and we had a great time. Didn’t hear from her for a couple of days, called her and asked her if she wanted to get together again. She had plans. Waited five days, called her again (expected a no) but she said she wanted to go out again and we met for dinner. We had an amazing kiss at the end of dinner and I thought things went really well (this was Sunday). And she said she definitely wanted to get together again. Sent her a text when I got home telling her that I had fun. She didn’t respond. I sent her an email about this place I want to take her to this weekend. No response.
Whats going on here? If she isn’t interested, why the long kiss? Why three dates? Why talk about the next date?
Am I being too aggressive by calling/texting? I’m not calling everyday (more like once per 4 days) but I feel like I’m the only one making the effort.
I like her. I’m hoping things continue but I’m confused.
The question now is how best to handle this situation.
Should I tell her that I am getting mixed signals and ask her whats what?
Just not call her and wait for her call/text/email and if she doesn’t then oh well?
Just call her again and tell her about this cool place I want to take her and if she wants to get together this weekend?
Tell her that I am not feeling like she is interested and that I am moving on?
So what does the world think?

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So there’s this guy I’ve been dating here and there. We both have busy schedules so its hard for us to get together. Well we went out one night and we had a really good time. He didn’t text me for like 5 days after and asked me out again for tomorrow. Is he playing with me? does this mean that he likes me or is just confused? I am 23 and he is 20. I think maybe he’s a little intimidated by my age but I’m not sure…he’s told me he likes older girls so lol…what do i do? Should I go out with him or not go out with him for him waiting so long to text me after our first date?

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ok, so im a little new to this dating thing. ive just now learned about this mystical “makeup” product (oooh! aaaaah!), and until recently, my entire town seemed to be populated with boys who were short enough to pass for third graders. suddenly, at the start of this new school year, a TON of new people moved to our district, and finally there are actually guys OVER 5′ 5″ (no offense to shorter people. i just happen to be 5′ 11″). anyway, a few days ago i was out with a couple of my friends, and we saw these SERIOUSLY hot guys (who were tall! woohoo!), AND they were checking us out for pretty much the whole time that me and my friends were out! anyways, i would have gone over and talked to them, but never having dated before, i was completely afraid of making an idiot of myself. any tips for getting around to talking to random hot guys like this? not what to say to them, but a way to actually get to talking to them without just going up and announcing myself. because this actually happens alot, and its really disappointing when i never get up the nerve to talk to them, and i end up having to go home before THEY ever get up the nerve to talk to ME.
Basically, any tips for finding an excuse to talk to random guys i happen to see when i go somewhere? Yes, I know that the guy is traditionally supposed to talk to the girl first if he’s a ‘real man’ or whatever, but personally, im all for screwing tradition, so please dont answer that i should wait for them to get up the guts to talk to me. honestly though, i will never get up the nerve to just walk over and announce that im talking to them, i need a roundabout way to end up having a conversation with them.
and yes, i am also aware of safety precautions and all of that stuff. i have had to watch videos about it since the fourth grade, my parents have repeatedly talked to me about it (and forever scarred my memory), and its not like im going to be stupid or anything. i know how to be careful.

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I’m 31, I have three daughters from a previous marriage, I’ve been single for over a year and I am ready to find someone new. One thing that I foresee being a problem is the fact that I had a vasectomy after my third daughter was born and I don’t want anymore kids. That limits my dating pool to women that have kids and don’t want anymore or women who like kids but don’t want any of their own. In my experience so far, both of those types of women are hard to find. I’m open to internet dating sites, but I’ve had the same problem there as well. How does one go about meeting people in my situation? I’m a great guy with a lot to offer the right person, I’m pretty cool and I have an attractive personality that has always been able to attract women, and I HAVE attracted a few over the last year, but this whole not wanting any more kids thing has always turned them off. Any ideas?

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I’m 31, I have three daughters from a previous marriage, I’ve been single for over a year and I am ready to find someone new. One thing that I foresee being a problem is the fact that I had a vasectomy after my third daughter was born and I don’t want anymore kids. That limits my dating pool to women that have kids and don’t want anymore or women who like kids but don’t want any of their own. In my experience so far, both of those types of women are hard to find. I’m open to internet dating sites, but I’ve had the same problem there as well. How does one go about meeting people in my situation? I’m a great guy with a lot to offer the right person, I’m pretty cool and I have an attractive personality that has always been able to attract women, and I HAVE attracted a few over the last year, but this whole not wanting any more kids thing has always turned them off. Any ideas?

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I just started dating someone who I have known for over two years through work. He is a programming contractor where I used to work. When he heard me no longer work there, he asked me out for a date. At the end of the first date, he gave me a hug and tried to kiss me, but I turned my head away since I wasn’t ready for a kiss yet. He said he had waited for two years. The next day, he asked me out for lunch before he headed back home (he lives 2-1/2 hrs. away). At the end of the lunch, he told me until he got his first kiss, he is keeping his match.com profile. I liked him and was attracted to him, but now I felt he is kind of pushy and tried to rush things when I want to take my time since I just left my ex-boyfriend of 10 months because he was a total liar. I will be seeing him again soon, the 3rd date, what should I do if he try to kiss me again, which I’m sure he will. I don’t want to ruin the chance with him, but then I wasn’t ready for the kiss. Pushy personality is kind of a turn-off for me. Please advise.

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Well, im in high school and haven’t had much of a dating life. I’ve hooked up with a few girls here and there, maybe went out with one or two for a week at most.
But there’s this girl. I have known her for about 2 years, and have gotten to really know her best the last few months. lets call her “L”. I have a friend who ive only known since December, we will call him “G”. I met “G” because he was dating “L”. When i first met him i thought he was w.e, but we became pretty good friends.
I tend to flirt with people just as i would talk to them, its a natural thing for me. I really like “L” and i flirt with her more than i do with others but she usually goes along with it. “L” may not be the most attractive girl in the school, but i care about her, shes funny, and just an all arround great girl.
“G” and “L” broke up recently, and “L” has came to me for some support. So i have two questions.
1. Would it be wrong to date my friends ex, even though he said it would be fine?
2. If it is ok… Should i go for it? Do you think i have a chance? if i do get rejected, do things stay awkward or do things (eventually) go back to normal.
Thanks!

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It is a great opportunity to develop your langauge skills and knowledge of diffierent cultures and beliefs. I would highly recommend living part of your life abroad.

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Women will tell men what they THINK they want, not what they RESPOND to.
This IS the basis of womens’ sexuality, the inability to admit this BECAUSE they derive sexual pleasure
from putting up resistance and being overwhelmed.
Do you agree?

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