It’s been over a month and a half since me and my friend have started going out and we both want to tell our parents but don’t know how. My parents know I’m bi-sexual and know I’ve dated girls before but since she was my best friend for so long I’m unsure how I should tell my parents that me and her are dating. Any advice?
Hi I am 23 yr old girl and I was wondering what I should do I just started dating this guy and we became exclusive right away,but I think it was to soon he’s not seeing anyone else and neither I am he tells me I’m his gf but doesn’t answer his phone around me and is a little distant at times
Also a little more info I meet him online and also he spent the night for the first time last night and this morning it felt awkward and weird not at all like we were getting closer to each other we also didn’t have sex last night just cuddle and this morning before he left to go back to work we did then we watched tv for a bit he checked his messages and had to leave early for work he kissed me goodbye and didn’t even say when he would call should I be worried and concerned about were our relationship is headed we haven’t gone on any dates yet we mostly hangout in my apartment oh and also we have had sex three times but never talk about our lives I feel like I hardly know him should I broach the subject or just let it sit for awhile and see if he comes around help me please!!!!!
I have been dating this guy for about 4 weeks now and we’ve been on about 7 or 8 dates. Recently I invited him to my place. I cooked us dinner and we watched a movie. He spent the night and when he was leaving the next day he decided to leave some of his movies at my house. I asked him if he was going to take his movies and he just said to leave them and we would watch them next time.
We have talked about the boyfriend/girlfriend thing, but we haven’t made anything official yet, but I guess my question is this: By him leaving things at my place is this a sign that we are moving towards becoming boyfriend/girlfriend or am I reading too much into this?”
Thanks!~
You see in my school, there are two girls I want to ask out. Obviously I’m not gonna ask out both. I know none of you know me but I’ll give some detail. Alright both girls I don’t know very well. In my school I’m averagely popular. Both those girls are popular to an extreme. I’m going to use code names of #1 and #2. Now #1 I’ve known a bit longer the only downside is that she is very loud and yeah you see my point.Now I don’t know how this will be taken by my friends. Now with#2, my not close whatsoever “friend” dated her. Now it was for a short while and i put air quotes around friend because now he ignores me. Now, this has been bugging me for a while I’ve flipped coins which is stupid I know and once had a sleepless night! Anyway, neither one is interested in me no way. I mean I have terible luck when it comes to dating. You’ve read my story now please help out a fellow Yahoo! user. I’ll even answer your questions (I’m good with them)
So i been dating this guy for almost 5 months… we gone out numerous of time since then… met his bro just met his sis….we talk on the phone every night / text as well… took me on a weekend getaway for my bday….basically we hang out and go on dates a lot.. However we havent touched the subject of where we stand… i honestly beleive that time will take its course and it will happen naturally without pressure. ( being official br .gf)…
Should i just go day by day…. and let him open up when he feels its right? i feel if i say something he might slip away
What do you guys think?… let nature take its course ….? It has gone soo great these past months
Here’s the thing some people just naturally know how to date. Others may be old as hell and still spend the rest of their life time learning, which is my case. See I’m 29 and I don’t have a clue on how to do things… total disaster I am lol
This dude.. I am relocating to where he lives in a few months, hardly know him, be I do feel this empathy, so I asked him if he wanted to be mates once I get there, you know? hang out, go to the pub from time to time, possibly do some bike rides, concerts and things.
What I’m thinking is: what if I get there and actually feel attracted to him, coz even do I don’t know him very well, something tells me that there is a great chance I might feel attracted to him once I see him again. So if that happens, being that I have already kinda institutionalized this future mate thing, do you think I could still fix/change things to get them on the dating path??? lolol
That is if I do feel attracted to him once we meet again in a few months. Something tells me I will tho.. something tells me I already do actually :/ I mean who am I kidding, mates, yeah right?!
p.s. I would consider myself an attractive young woman, but then again that’s not the point, coz I don’t wanna shag him I wanna get to know him.
My mom hates the guy i’m dating, he’s 5 years younger than i am, (i’m 29, he’s 24) he is in the military, at one point i thought things were over with him and i confessed to her that he had done drugs at one point in his life…she thinks he’s a loser and that he’s not serious about me. he says that he is serious about me and loves me…I’m confused. She wants me to be with a guy my age who has a good job and can take care of me…I dont know that i want to settle down with someone like that…i want someone who excites me and this guy definitely doest that…am i worried i’ll get hurt? Yes of course…but that could happen with anyone? What should i do?
A better question is do you ever read personal profiles of people who want to date. I guess dating advice is geared to the young and needy and those still unsure of themselves. Anyone older would know each experience is unique in itself and the best advice is to maintain self respect for yourself and not disrespect anybody else in the process. Amazing, but most people do not do that.
I know its long, but its not boring!!!
Heres how it is:
i’m 13 and there’s a guy who is almost a year older than me who says he really loves me. (whatev, you know?)
heres the weird part:
so, i’ve heard so much weird stuff about him. i’ve heard bad things about him, some which actually werent true.
he’s in my best friends grade, and he like, hits her butt and pops her bra strap. she doesnt think of him that way though. everytime i ask him about the stuff he does to her, he says he doesnt think of her that way and that he was just messing around.
he says he loves me and will always no matter what. blah blah blah
so everytime he asks me out, i tell him i dont trust him and i have reasons.
but heres the other thing:
my best GUY friend (lets call him frank.) is also one of his best friends.
so frank was with this guy one day. they went to a movie and to hooters and somewhere else.
frank said the guy texted me through the whole movie.
frank said that the guy didnt even want to go to hooters because he didnt want to do anything that would make me mad. frank said when they were at hooters, he just sat there and watched tv and texted me. (and ate, of course)
so i thought about it. then the other day, frank tells me this.
frank said, in so many words, that the guy has sort of “fantasized”, i guess you could say, of me basically playing cowgirl. (you know…ride it cowgirl.) and i am NOT that kind of girl. never at this young age. so i asked the guy about it. he just said lol. then i was like, why’d you say it?? would you have really done it?? and he was like, well, maybe. i was like, its a yes or no question. he goes, sure.
like i said, i refuse to do anything like that at this age. ANYTHING. its gross and inappropriate.
so i’m afraid that if i go out with him that he’ll try something. which i’d just say no, but then i’d break up with him.
what should i do? please give serious advice. and advice from people who have had this sort of issue too would be great! thanks!
I’ve been talking to this guy that I met on a dating website. We seem to have many things in common and when we spoke on the phone, I felt it went really well and that we clicked instantly. Well when he ended the phone call about an hour later, he asked if he could give me a call over the weekend and that we should set something up for this week. I said I’d like that. Well he never called and I am honestly surprised. I really had a good feeling about this guy and thought it was mutual. The only possible thing I could think of being a factor is that the day after we talked I sent him a short message on the website telling him I looked up some song he recommended and made a little sarcastic joke about how I would have recognized it if he would have sang it. (I asked him to sang it on the phone but we were just joking around.) So maybe he thought that came off as sounding bitchy? Or maybe I’m overthinking it way too much. What would have made him change his mind? Should I call him?
