It is inevitably going to happen to you when you are out partying for girls. Having a great conversation with a girl you are interested in is always the goal when out with the guys. Its only a matter of time before you see the girl that grabs your attention. Now you try to find the courage to talk to her and her group of friends shes with. You have gotten the courage to talk to the girls. Something doesn’t seem right though.
All her friends are very receptive but the woman you were focusing on isn’t giving you much attention to work with.
Dont fret. It’s not that she isn’t into you or that you aren’t her type. By focusing on her you gave her the ego boost she needed to sort of play hard to get with you.
She gets the feeling of importance and now the ball is in her court. She doesn’t want to lose her value her friends see her in so she doesn’t respond as some girl who’s easy as Sunday Morning.
At this point, you should change your approach and solve this problem by using the Deflection Theory. This is when you take that interest and attention from the girl you are interested in and focus that onto one or more of her girlfriends.
The Deflection Theory is when you take that interest and attention from the girl you are interested in and focus that attention onto one or more of her girlfriends. By doing so you stop giving her the attention she was getting and is going to start to wonder why you aren’t giving that attention anymore to her.
She is going to realize that you aren’t providing her with any attention and she is going to start wondering what went wrong? She is going to try to now get your attention back, which is what you’ll gladly take. See how the guy gets the girl with this?
This technique allows you to challenge a girl. Use this technique from Guy Gets Girl to increase your chances of being successful in the dating scene and to get the girl.
