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http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog Who doesn't want a girlfriend? Sun, 20 May 2012 17:26:53 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/advice-thoughts-pros-cons-on-dating-with-20-yr-difference/comment-page-1#comment-10961 kinkyboo Thu, 15 Jul 2010 23:00:27 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/advice-thoughts-pros-cons-on-dating-with-20-yr-difference#comment-10961 It may....it may not. No-one could give you promises about how your future with this Guy could go. I'm 50 & my Husband of 5 years (been together 7) is 26 I don't look anywhere near 50 & don't act it either. To be honest; I'm not sure what 50 yr olds should act like, I'm responsible when I need to be.....I've brought up 5 Children, my youngest Son (16) is at college studying media & critical thinking...hoping to take Law next year, My 19 yr old Son is training to be a firefighter. My 2 eldest Children are older than my Husband, It was tough at first with my Kids accepting him, but now? they all have a hell of a lot of respect for the Guy that everyone said was far too young for me. I keep totally up to date with the latest music, modern clothes, watch my diet & workout 3 times a week, I also work out with weights, not, I may add to keep my Guy happy, that's me anyway. I have as much energy as I did when I was 25 & have no intention of slowing down. We are as happy today (more actually) as we were when we first got married 5 yrs ago. I think lots of relationships with an age difference have a good rate of success. One of the biggest problems a couple like that may face are the attitudes of other people that just have to give their tuppence worth instead of getting on with their own lives. Couples of similar or same ages often don't survive together anyway, it doesn't just happen to age gap couples. I think (certainly in our case) that whatever the ages of each partner in a relationship, they need to have common things that help to bind them together, I know I couldn't handle being with a Guy that was like an "old fart" But neither could I see myself with a "boy racer" I've always felt the same way. My Husband is very mature for his age & I'm very young for mine, so we meet somewhere in the middle. I have never made my Husband feel as though he were some silly little Boy...I have always treated him as equal, afterall, that's what he is. We don't actually notice any age gap within our relationship. My ex-husband was 11 yrs older than me & to be honest, he may as well have been 50 yrs older. He constantly refered to "knowing more" than me because he was "older" It's people that make relationships...not ages Some are bothered by an age difference, but it doesn't seem to be something that will put you off, So! If you feel you want to make a go of things with this Guy, then date him & see how things progress, you may feel he isn't for you after all, you may find it's a match made in heaven. Remember this though! Every relationship has it's ups & downs, it's how you cope with these events within your relationship that determines the rate of success, it also takes 2 to make it work properly. What wouldn't work for one may be ideal for another. Don't rush into anything & don't be pushed either. Be happy & lots of luck. It may….it may not. No-one could give you promises about how your future with this Guy could go.
I’m 50 & my Husband of 5 years (been together 7) is 26
I don’t look anywhere near 50 & don’t act it either. To be honest; I’m not sure what 50 yr olds should act like, I’m responsible when I need to be…..I’ve brought up 5 Children, my youngest Son (16) is at college studying media & critical thinking…hoping to take Law next year, My 19 yr old Son is training to be a firefighter.
My 2 eldest Children are older than my Husband,
It was tough at first with my Kids accepting him, but now? they all have a hell of a lot of respect for the Guy that everyone said was far too young for me.
I keep totally up to date with the latest music, modern clothes, watch my diet & workout 3 times a week, I also work out with weights, not, I may add to keep my Guy happy, that’s me anyway. I have as much energy as I did when I was 25 & have no intention of slowing down.
We are as happy today (more actually) as we were when we first got married 5 yrs ago.
I think lots of relationships with an age difference have a good rate of success. One of the biggest problems a couple like that may face are the attitudes of other people that just have to give their tuppence worth instead of getting on with their own lives.
Couples of similar or same ages often don’t survive together anyway, it doesn’t just happen to age gap couples.
I think (certainly in our case) that whatever the ages of each partner in a relationship, they need to have common things that help to bind them together, I know I couldn’t handle being with a Guy that was like an “old fart” But neither could I see myself with a “boy racer” I’ve always felt the same way.
My Husband is very mature for his age & I’m very young for mine, so we meet somewhere in the middle.
I have never made my Husband feel as though he were some silly little Boy…I have always treated him as equal, afterall, that’s what he is.
We don’t actually notice any age gap within our relationship.
My ex-husband was 11 yrs older than me & to be honest, he may as well have been 50 yrs older. He constantly refered to “knowing more” than me because he was “older”
It’s people that make relationships…not ages
Some are bothered by an age difference, but it doesn’t seem to be something that will put you off,
So! If you feel you want to make a go of things with this Guy, then date him & see how things progress, you may feel he isn’t for you after all, you may find it’s a match made in heaven.
Remember this though! Every relationship has it’s ups & downs, it’s how you cope with these events within your relationship that determines the rate of success, it also takes 2 to make it work properly. What wouldn’t work for one may be ideal for another. Don’t rush into anything & don’t be pushed either.
Be happy & lots of luck.

]]> http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/i-need-dating-advice-please-someone/comment-page-1#comment-10980 arceus Thu, 15 Jul 2010 18:56:38 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/i-need-dating-advice-please-someone#comment-10980 i agree u should write her a song, but if not i would say november rain or love song for acouple ideas.nothin heavy and its gotta be sweet i agree u should write her a song, but if not i would say november rain or love song for acouple ideas.nothin heavy and its gotta be sweet

]]> http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/advice-thoughts-pros-cons-on-dating-with-20-yr-difference/comment-page-1#comment-10960 666 Thu, 15 Jul 2010 16:48:19 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/advice-thoughts-pros-cons-on-dating-with-20-yr-difference#comment-10960 She has a vowed before God to be totally His!!!Here's a poem which has been a refuge: The only way to understand ourselves is by what God is and by what He does for us. You are who you are for a reason You're part of an intricate plan. You're precious and perfect,unique design, Called God's special woman or man. You look you look for a reason. Our God made no mistake He knit you together within the womb, You're just what he wanted to make. The parents you had were the once He chose, And no matter how you may feel, They were custom designed with God's plan in mind, And they bear the Master's seal. No, the trauma you faced was not easy, And God wept that it hurt you so: But it was allowed to shape your heart So that in His likeness you'd grow. You are who you are for a reason. You've been formed by the Master's rod. You are who you are, Because there is GOD!!!! He is my creator and I am accountable to Him and Him alone.I accept the way life treats me.Try to live it with his Grace.That is the way my LIFE is arranged.I do nothing outside His will. She has a vowed before God to be totally His!!!Here’s a poem which has been a refuge:
The only way to understand ourselves is by what God is and by what He does for us.
You are who you are for a reason
You’re part of an intricate plan.
You’re precious and perfect,unique design,
Called God’s special woman or man.
You look you look for a reason.
Our God made no mistake
He knit you together within the womb,
You’re just what he wanted to make.
The parents you had were the once He chose,
And no matter how you may feel,
They were custom designed with God’s plan in mind,
And they bear the Master’s seal.
No, the trauma you faced was not easy,
And God wept that it hurt you so:
But it was allowed to shape your heart
So that in His likeness you’d grow.
You are who you are for a reason.
You’ve been formed by the Master’s rod.
You are who you are,
Because there is GOD!!!!
He is my creator and I am accountable to Him and Him alone.I accept the way life treats me.Try to live it with his Grace.That is the way my LIFE is arranged.I do nothing outside His will.

]]> http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/advice-thoughts-pros-cons-on-dating-with-20-yr-difference/comment-page-1#comment-10959 Proverbs Thu, 15 Jul 2010 14:56:58 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/advice-thoughts-pros-cons-on-dating-with-20-yr-difference#comment-10959 Its all a relative thing. There are advantages and disadvantages of dating and eventually marrying a man 20 years older than you. If she should decide to go with the option of being with him, she should keep in mind and be ready to stand for your decision all through, regardless of the comments that people make (because believe me, they will talk). Make sure that its a decision that you'll be able to be happy with in 20 years time. Secondly, remember that the ageing process will be different for her and him. He's going to grow old long before she does. If she plans to have children together with him, she will be more agile than him with them because (especially if she decides to space them apart), because the more time she takes in having children, the older he'll be.On the other hand, since he's a lot older, he's wiser & he's already experienced most things that you'll go through together. He's more likely to be less petty & less immature than younger men. He's also a lot more likely to be more patient and gentle with her than he'd be if he was younger. So if she loves him very much and she knows that she won't be attracted to a younger man when he starts looking old, go for it because older men can be very charming, supportive and lovable. Oh and by the way, I respect her for her decision to wait to have sex Its all a relative thing. There are advantages and disadvantages of dating and eventually marrying a man 20 years older than you. If she should decide to go with the option of being with him, she should keep in mind and be ready to stand for your decision all through, regardless of the comments that people make (because believe me, they will talk). Make sure that its a decision that you’ll be able to be happy with in 20 years time. Secondly, remember that the ageing process will be different for her and him. He’s going to grow old long before she does. If she plans to have children together with him, she will be more agile than him with them because (especially if she decides to space them apart), because the more time she takes in having children, the older he’ll be.On the other hand, since he’s a lot older, he’s wiser & he’s already experienced most things that you’ll go through together. He’s more likely to be less petty & less immature than younger men. He’s also a lot more likely to be more patient and gentle with her than he’d be if he was younger. So if she loves him very much and she knows that she won’t be attracted to a younger man when he starts looking old, go for it because older men can be very charming, supportive and lovable. Oh and by the way, I respect her for her decision to wait to have sex

]]> http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/i-need-dating-advice-please-someone/comment-page-1#comment-10979 chris k Thu, 15 Jul 2010 11:56:50 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/i-need-dating-advice-please-someone#comment-10979 dont use someone else's words, use yours. speak from your heart. dont use someone else’s words, use yours. speak from your heart.

]]> http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/advice-thoughts-pros-cons-on-dating-with-20-yr-difference/comment-page-1#comment-10958 Gemma G Thu, 15 Jul 2010 11:24:31 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/advice-thoughts-pros-cons-on-dating-with-20-yr-difference#comment-10958 PROS: The both know what they want in life, most guys our age nowadays still don't have their priorities on track and and still don't know what they want out of life. There is also the wisdom the guy has, like you said he's been through alot so with that said he has learned how he would like to be treated so he will most likely treat her with the respect he wants, he owns his own house and a good stable job, the guy is well off. CONS: 20 years is a big age difference, in his situation being 43 years old he might not want to go out and have fun as much as your friend. She is still 23 years old, she is young! and what she needs right now is to enjoy her youth and not have a man 20 years her senior keep her locked down. Basically it all depends on her heart, if she knows that she will love him and that he would make her happy, then age really doesn't matter. But if it's just a flirtation and nothing more, i suggest to keep it as friends. PROS: The both know what they want in life, most guys our age nowadays still don’t have their priorities on track and and still don’t know what they want out of life. There is also the wisdom the guy has, like you said he’s been through alot so with that said he has learned how he would like to be treated so he will most likely treat her with the respect he wants, he owns his own house and a good stable job, the guy is well off.
CONS: 20 years is a big age difference, in his situation being 43 years old he might not want to go out and have fun as much as your friend. She is still 23 years old, she is young! and what she needs right now is to enjoy her youth and not have a man 20 years her senior keep her locked down.
Basically it all depends on her heart, if she knows that she will love him and that he would make her happy, then age really doesn’t matter. But if it’s just a flirtation and nothing more, i suggest to keep it as friends.

]]> http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/i-need-dating-advice-please-someone/comment-page-1#comment-10978 Wyccadse Thu, 15 Jul 2010 10:53:46 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/i-need-dating-advice-please-someone#comment-10978 i like "ill try youll see" by toby domoney, not big, on myspace, but the new version, good song and not that long, its sexy should work for you should read on player "new ill try youll see" i like “ill try youll see” by toby domoney, not big, on myspace, but the new version, good song and not that long, its sexy should work for you should read on player “new ill try youll see”

]]> http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/i-need-dating-advice-please-someone/comment-page-1#comment-10977 Best Pool Pumps Thu, 15 Jul 2010 06:50:23 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/i-need-dating-advice-please-someone#comment-10977 ok there is so many thing u could do for one u need to find out wat type of music like a country or hip hop love song (email me back and ill help u cuz i have had this problem b4) next do u want it to describe her??? find out if she has a favorite artist um or band. next ur guna have to look at the lyrics do u want it to be plain out there the way u feel or do u want her to read between the lines so that way its more interesting? ok there is so many thing u could do for one u need to find out wat type of music like a country or hip hop love song (email me back and ill help u cuz i have had this problem b4) next do u want it to describe her??? find out if she has a favorite artist um or band. next ur guna have to look at the lyrics do u want it to be plain out there the way u feel or do u want her to read between the lines so that way its more interesting?

]]> http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/advice-thoughts-pros-cons-on-dating-with-20-yr-difference/comment-page-1#comment-10957 SKINNY BONES Thu, 15 Jul 2010 06:17:09 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/advice-thoughts-pros-cons-on-dating-with-20-yr-difference#comment-10957 WHAT WHAT

]]> http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/advice-thoughts-pros-cons-on-dating-with-20-yr-difference/comment-page-1#comment-10956 droopydo Thu, 15 Jul 2010 06:16:25 +0000 http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com/blog/dating/advice-thoughts-pros-cons-on-dating-with-20-yr-difference#comment-10956 It sounds like you have the makings of a great relationship, maybe you an become a little more flirty, possibly trying to get touchy with him. I do not see a problem with the age thing, its only a number. And besides, he is not 85 y/o. As long as you are not out after his money and thru love is in the air, than what you have could be really amazing. Waiting for sex, if he is a gentleman that will be a great thing, if he isn't, he will look elsewhere in the meantime. It sounds like you have the makings of a great relationship, maybe you an become a little more flirty, possibly trying to get touchy with him. I do not see a problem with the age thing, its only a number. And besides, he is not 85 y/o. As long as you are not out after his money and thru love is in the air, than what you have could be really amazing. Waiting for sex, if he is a gentleman that will be a great thing, if he isn’t, he will look elsewhere in the meantime.

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