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You might not be aware that by telling your life story, the weight you’re carrying will almost certainly be lifted. Have you told your story?

When telling your story to an outsider, especially someone who will not judge you, it is without any doubt whatsoever, worth it. You need not tell your story to anyone face to face. You can write it. You can tell it to someone imaginary. You can pretend telling it to someone real; in flesh or who has passed away. Whichever way, it needs telling. Have you told your story?

Why is this so important? The first thing that happens when you start telling your story is that pent up energy starts flowing. Like with a wound that starts the healing process. Thus the blocked energy caused by the pain of your story, is diluted with the fresh energy erupting by you telling your story.

Even though the above might sound merely interesting or far-fetched or too easy or too good to be true, do not underestimate telling your story’s power to clear out the blockage and replace it with fresh new energy. Powerful energy. Healing energy. Unstinted energy. Tornado like energy. Blowing fresh energy into the wound, a wound that might even be decades old. An old wound - getting a chance to heal! Have you told your story?

You’d get a chance to meet another side of yourself, altogether. Where you are yourself, without prejudice and without being judged.

Have a look at your talents, your nature, your dreams (the waking kind), your daydreams, the underlying reason for your dreams, who you are, what stands in your way of being you, your life vision and your dream life. Have you told your story?

Is this your time?

Emmanuel van der Meulen is a life awareness coach. He can help you with overcoming your fears. Request your free optimal life newsletter.

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