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8 Comments to Any Advice For A 38 Yr Old Man Dating A 35 Yr Old Single Mother Of A 3 Yr Old Boy?
Melynda says:
January 2nd, 2010 at 5:07 pm
Just because she has a kid doesn’t mean you will always be last. I realized that my sone will grow up and move on one day. My husband will be with me forever. I love my son, but he isn’t my whole world. My husband is. It’s a different kind of love!
Amber R says:
January 2nd, 2010 at 6:00 pm
He comes first, always.
Its not always easy to find a sitter, include him when you can.
Last minute dates and being spontaneous does not always work out so well!
Kids can be trying, they need time to eat, sleep and rest - don’t plan on to much when you take him along.
Be careful you don’t overstep your boundaries to soon. Don’t try to discipline him or be his dad. The further into the relationship these things may come but its not a walk on role.
Always remember, its not an insta family.
Kids can be a lot of fun!!
Basically just be understanding, moms are busy and tired!
oneiloil says:
January 2nd, 2010 at 7:20 pm
A stepchild can help make a marriage work or completely destroy it. How is your relationship with her son ? Is he jealous of you or does he think of you as his new daddy ? It makes a huge differance. Is there an X husband in the picture ? That can complicate things too.
Good luck.
~Wishes~ says:
January 2nd, 2010 at 10:35 pm
No not really it’s only a 3 year difference. Are you more concerned about her having a kid? If you can’t accept the kid then you can’t accept her. He’s comes with the package
Jean says:
January 3rd, 2010 at 3:04 am
3 Years age diff is nothing so I’m assuming that’s not the issue.
As for the kid, just be kind. That’s all I can say. Don’t judge her or ever hold it against her. You’ll be fine.
Ginger E says:
January 3rd, 2010 at 7:21 am
I don’t think there is anything wrong with this picture. There are many single moms(including myself) that have a child and a boyfriend.
Dads boy says:
January 3rd, 2010 at 9:50 am
Sex is still the same just have to make sure the kid is sleeping daddy.
jethro_d says:
January 3rd, 2010 at 2:07 pm
Don’t molest the 3 year old! Remember, he comes first in her life.
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Melynda says:
January 2nd, 2010 at 5:07 pm
Just because she has a kid doesn’t mean you will always be last. I realized that my sone will grow up and move on one day. My husband will be with me forever. I love my son, but he isn’t my whole world. My husband is. It’s a different kind of love!
Amber R says:
January 2nd, 2010 at 6:00 pm
He comes first, always.
Its not always easy to find a sitter, include him when you can.
Last minute dates and being spontaneous does not always work out so well!
Kids can be trying, they need time to eat, sleep and rest - don’t plan on to much when you take him along.
Be careful you don’t overstep your boundaries to soon. Don’t try to discipline him or be his dad. The further into the relationship these things may come but its not a walk on role.
Always remember, its not an insta family.
Kids can be a lot of fun!!
Basically just be understanding, moms are busy and tired!
oneiloil says:
January 2nd, 2010 at 7:20 pm
A stepchild can help make a marriage work or completely destroy it. How is your relationship with her son ? Is he jealous of you or does he think of you as his new daddy ? It makes a huge differance. Is there an X husband in the picture ? That can complicate things too.
Good luck.
~Wishes~ says:
January 2nd, 2010 at 10:35 pm
No not really it’s only a 3 year difference. Are you more concerned about her having a kid? If you can’t accept the kid then you can’t accept her. He’s comes with the package
Jean says:
January 3rd, 2010 at 3:04 am
3 Years age diff is nothing so I’m assuming that’s not the issue.
As for the kid, just be kind. That’s all I can say. Don’t judge her or ever hold it against her. You’ll be fine.
Ginger E says:
January 3rd, 2010 at 7:21 am
I don’t think there is anything wrong with this picture. There are many single moms(including myself) that have a child and a boyfriend.
Dads boy says:
January 3rd, 2010 at 9:50 am
Sex is still the same just have to make sure the kid is sleeping daddy.
jethro_d says:
January 3rd, 2010 at 2:07 pm
Don’t molest the 3 year old! Remember, he comes first in her life.