Any Real Dating Advice From A Ladies Point Of View Trying To Help A Guy?
Im a 26 year old guy. Im in the Army, and have never really had a real relationship. Some say im a decent looking guy, which I think I am. Im so damn afraid to talk to women I dont know. I always think of a reason as to why I shouldnt approach a lady, or why I shouldnt try to date her. I have never been cheated on, because Ive never had a real relationship, but because I have seen so many women cheat, I tend to think they are all cheaters. This dating stuff is tough. I never wanted to be with anyone until recently. I dont know how I feel about the online stuff. Id rather not meet someone online, and pretty much one day just grab my balls and stop acting like a pussy, but until then I feel stuck.
Cabbie Lover says:
February 6th, 2010 at 3:29 am
The first thing you need to do is resolve your irrational feelings towards women. Generalizing that all women are cheaters certainly isn’t going to get you into a good relationship, if it gets you into a relationship at all. Until you take care of YOU, you aren’t ready for dating.
Elf says:
February 6th, 2010 at 5:42 am
don’t knock online dating. yes there are lots of idiots on there but it’s a great way to meet people and share information before actually “meeting” them. You might find you are more comfortable talking to someone in person after you have gotten to know them online.
Skittles says:
February 6th, 2010 at 11:41 am
lols… if you never really had a girlfriend.. you will always be shy…
NOT ALL LADIES ARE CHEATERS…!!!!
its all on who/how and what you like… some ladies are sweet, innocent… nice… friendly and honest. some are ladies… out going.. loud.. flirty… and just everywhere…
see which kind of type do you like..? also, dont forget… some… smokes… drinks and do drugs too.. if you’re not that type of guy who do drugs etc.. then dont find those kinds of girls..
you’re already 26 and one day you’ll want to settle down… find one that you know u can live together forever as husband and wifes… one who will carry your child(s) and one who you can love forever…
ShesDaBe says:
February 6th, 2010 at 6:07 pm
ooh man online dating is bullshit dont do it.. all girls arent cheating whores lol some girls are actually good.. i suggest u go out more n meet all different type of ladys n maybe one will make u want to settle down.. my bf was da type of guy to not wife up a girl bcuz he thought they was all whore n bitches but wen he met me he change his mind n even though he never had a real relationship he knew i was a good girl once he met me .. i guess u just get da feelin.. now dont only go for da looks bcuz we all kno looks are deciving look deeper than dat.. get yourself out there so u can find some1 .. n believe me we are not all cheaters.. i personally believe if u give a girl erythin she wants she wud neva have to cheat on you good luck