Can I Get Dating Advice On A Girl That Is Hard To Understand?
So there is this girl I like a lot. She told her friend she is starting to like me as well, and we spend a lot of time together.
The problem is she likes to joke around a lot and it is very hard to discuss serious matters with her. She has never had a serious relationship, and neither have I. I just want to know good strategies for flirting and talking about dating if she is interested, but doesn’t take it very seriously.
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Alawex12 says:
February 11th, 2010 at 6:58 am
Maybe she’s not taking it seriously because she is trying to avoid that situation. Maybe she’s not ready for a serious relationship and knows that’s where your conversation will lead to. It is possible that she enjoys your company but would like just remain friends for now or at least take things slowly.
OR
She’s just a silly person. If you find it difficult to speak seriously with her now, imagine how it will be later down the road when you need to have those tough conversations. How will she react to those? Reevaluate the situation and think about whether you REALLY want to commence a relationship with this person.
uniidenn says:
February 11th, 2010 at 1:00 pm
uhm, how old are you ??? that really makes a diffrence in your “stratagie” uhm try jokeing around if thats whuyt shes like? i wouldent be too seriouse because that might scare her way….but your obviously doing something right
keep trying to show her that you like her maybe pick a flower jfrom the ground randomly and put it ion her hair thats ROMANTIC!!!! lol and i capitalize that for yelling that would be just tell her how you feel if all else fails! : )
MrS says:
February 11th, 2010 at 1:14 pm
These are all good signs my friend.
Ask her out and make your intentions clear.
Move in for a kiss at the end of the date.
She is probably waiting for you to make the next move, now be a man and take charge.
Richard D says:
February 11th, 2010 at 7:26 pm
Well you gotta be doin something right. keep at it, just go for it, ask her out, not hard. But try and show youre a fun guy, joke around yourself, but be a bit more serious if you flirt with her.
blahblah says:
February 12th, 2010 at 1:49 am
Deee says:
February 12th, 2010 at 2:38 am
maybe she doesnt wanna be in a relationship
ask her out but make sure that it is a date and take her somewhere nice
and telll her straight up
spanish mortgages says:
February 12th, 2010 at 3:48 am
Joke around with the idea of you two being together and see how she reacts. Or just ask her out.
mytwocut says:
February 12th, 2010 at 8:48 am
how old is she? When I was young I was like that, I think that’s why I didn’t have a serious relationship until I was 21!