Could I Get Some Dating Advice?
I’m a senior in college (early 20’s). At any rate, my time in college is coming to an end soon without ever having had been on a date. It was the same for high school. In other words, I’ve never been on a date, and obviously never had a girlfriend. A girl I was interested in, I felt we had a lot in common, unfortunately has a boyfriend ( or so she claims). Before I had found this out, I really saw that the relationship had great potential. Frankly, I was distressed by this, although, I probably shouldn’t be.
I might see this problem as somewhat of a symbolic defeat in some ways. At any rate, the older I get the more I see my chances of getting a date ebbing away.
Question 1: Why does it seem like any girl I’m interested in either leads me on, already has a boyfriend, or rejects me entirely?
Question 2: What can I do to get a girlfriend?
I want to apologize for the question being so long. Thank you for any information you can give.
oneblood says:
February 25th, 2010 at 8:22 pm
obviously if this happens repeatedly, you have the wrong approach. have you tried going to college parties and seeing if you can’t meet people there? you have to expand your circle of friends to include girls. start off by making friends with women that interest you– not just in a romantic way. once you learn how to act around girls in a friendly environment, when you are placed in a dating situation you will handle it better.
tips? give genuine and unique compliments, be yourself, don’t show off, don’t put other people down in front of her, and be a gentleman. have fun!
rocky349 says:
February 26th, 2010 at 3:11 am
answer 1: even if people have said no to you, you should still go for it .
answer 2: first of all you should know her for at least a week before asking the girl out. I’m going to tell you what my older sister’s rules are that most girls like!
1.has to have a car
2.has to have a job
3.has to have money
4.has to buy her things (most important)
and tell your friends that don’t have a girlfriend the same thing!
GOOD LUCK!
Dani says:
February 26th, 2010 at 6:26 am
When you enter the professional work force, you’ll meet an entirely new and very available group of young people… in their 20’s and 30’s. So, actually, you have much to look forward to. I met my future husband when I was 24 and he was 27… both of us were university graduates. Both of us had solid jobs and were ready to settle down.. that will happen to you , too. Hang tight.
socalcra says:
February 26th, 2010 at 11:05 am
Try being more outgoing, and don’t put all your eggs in one basket… keep trying and do not give up!
nas t says:
February 26th, 2010 at 5:55 pm
maybe your ugly
Sorry, had to say that, but are you?
Maybe your always looking for girls out of your league
go for the one’s who have the same “looks” as you
the worlds sadly a very shallow place
and your being to analytical about it
JUST GO FOR IT
don’t over think it
angelajs says:
February 26th, 2010 at 10:04 pm
I think you need to step out of your rut. You probably have regular places that you go and regular people that you see. Maybe you should go somewhere different, see someone new. Since I don’t know you I don’t know how shy you are, but I think you probably are pretty shy and you should try to open up more. You need to forget about being rejected and just go out there and try your best. If that doesn’t work for you, you can just sit on your butt and hope someone will come along..lol
eeeewy says:
February 27th, 2010 at 1:25 am
lol its not long….
1. ur physical appearance- u might be hideous jk
ur personality- are u mean or unpleasant in any way? girls don like the “sweet and quiet” type anymore…that was 4 high school. they moved on to the “strong, funny, cute” type now
or maybe som1 is spreading rumors about u?
2. u can be urself and most importantly: dont go for the BITCHY girls, cuz they’ll just spread the rumors more and more and more and more
Austin B says:
February 27th, 2010 at 4:52 am
play on first night growl