Dating Advice! I Need Some Help!!!
I need help, what do i do?
What do i do??????????????
So i went on one date with this girl(my first date ever actually) and it went pretty well, ive been trying to get her to go out with me again, but apparently shes been having problems or perhaps excuses… i basically got tired of waiting and said…
“aight, i like u, i want to get to know you better, enough that im willing to wait as long as it takes, but if u aint interested, let me know and ill forget u right now”
her reply was this
“i swear im bbsitting the spawn of satan right now…i dont know how to respond, i know this sounds lame but idk if i can u know have a relationship with any guy, ive never had one before and i dont think im capable of it, i dont know why, mabe because of my dad or idk, its just something i tend to avoid”
i was at work so i had to wait a few hours to reply, but i said this
“to be honest ive never been in one either, but i love trying new things and well it gives life some flavor sometimes life is cherry flavored and well sometimes it taste like ****, but wouldnt life be boring without taste? i dunno, i just dont c how giving it a try could hurt, i mean im shy as hell but im willing to step out of the comfort zone if you are…”
its been a few days and i still havent gotten a response, i dont think shes going to respond, is there anything i can say or do though? i hate the thought of moving on, its just so weak and stupid and ive had to do it soo many times before that im sick of it, id rather try to see if she just wants to be friends and tell her maybe after we get to know eachother a bit better we can give it a try if the friendship thing clicks, or do u think that would be a bad idea?the only other thing is that i swear that on that one date we had, she said something about a past boyfriend…for the record though she seems like a very reserved shy person, but i dunno, we only talked in person for about an 1 and half so…



D R says:
February 25th, 2010 at 12:01 pm
dont be upset & dont give up, i mean it in a gud way (not stalking). Tell her you would like to be friends & then may be take it step by step, dont jump on her cos she has said she’s not comfortable with it. Give her time & u take the time to get to know her well. see how it goes, dont force her or u might just lose her. Slow & steady wins the race (lame but works),best of luck…..