Dating Advice. Need Serious Help With This One And Quick!?
You see in my school, there are two girls I want to ask out. Obviously I’m not gonna ask out both. I know none of you know me but I’ll give some detail. Alright both girls I don’t know very well. In my school I’m averagely popular. Both those girls are popular to an extreme. I’m going to use code names of #1 and #2. Now #1 I’ve known a bit longer the only downside is that she is very loud and yeah you see my point.Now I don’t know how this will be taken by my friends. Now with#2, my not close whatsoever “friend” dated her. Now it was for a short while and i put air quotes around friend because now he ignores me. Now, this has been bugging me for a while I’ve flipped coins which is stupid I know and once had a sleepless night! Anyway, neither one is interested in me no way. I mean I have terible luck when it comes to dating. You’ve read my story now please help out a fellow Yahoo! user. I’ll even answer your questions (I’m good with them)
tasha c says:
January 31st, 2010 at 2:15 am
it depends of their personalities which do u find attractive personality wise? because if your looking long term you need to be able to put up with them. secondly get to know them both become friends with them before you even consider dating them, get to know them on IM sites etc. Then if you finally pluck up the courage and decide which one you wanna date go for it and be honest with them you might be surprised they might like you too. If one doesn’t wanna know ask the other one win win situation. If you need more help email me ive been through this with 2 guys i liked.
skimpych says:
January 31st, 2010 at 3:22 am
I think you should ask out girl#1. I know your friends may not take it very well, but will you now risk your own happiness. You can’t divorce your wife just because your friends don’t like her. By the way, they might even turn out to take it very well. It wouldn’t be nice in anyway to ask out your whatsoever friend’s ex out, especially since it’s just been a short while ago.
iAnswer says:
January 31st, 2010 at 6:10 am
just cus your a fellow yahoo user doesn’t make you any more of a close friend or anything like that, so why’d ya say it? anyway, choose the one who you’ve know longer, f*ck your friends. If they’ve got a problem with her after a while, like she is being a b*tch to them, dump her. she’s not any good. then go for the one you classified as #2
Lizzy says:
January 31st, 2010 at 9:49 am
Hmmm, well, I think you should become good friends with both of them, if you can, and really get to know them.
You might also want to ask your “Friend” about whats up. And if you get rough that, a little while later, ask him about what went on with him and Girl #2.
And when I mean good friend I mean GOOD friend. ONe they can both rely on.
One they will like, and one they can trust.
Good luck!
Alexandr says:
January 31st, 2010 at 3:45 pm
ok, get a sheet of paper, list both of the names, then the good and bad of one, and the good and bad of the other, which has more good items listed?, which has more bad? whoever has more good, i think you should date that one, but I personally always think you should date the one you have known the longest! good luck! Answer my questions I have asked please!
Heres the question link: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ahf0n__OO6KGf_yVWu.9nbXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100105182542AAQbZyR
Nuwanee says:
January 31st, 2010 at 9:15 pm
I would go with the second…it’s only not okay to date someone that a friend dated when they aren’t over them, or say it isn’t okay…or whatever.
If you find loud annoying, you will find it more annoying as time goes on.
Although, if neither is interested, you MIGHT want to show them why they should go out with you and get whichever you pick interested
WP Autoblog Software says:
January 31st, 2010 at 10:43 pm
what is your question? go out with someone that you know you can get, there is no need going out with girls you find flawed so quick, and if your friends approval mean so much to you and you want a girl that isnt cool with them then you shouldn’t date her either. but that is all your preference.
Websiteh says:
February 1st, 2010 at 2:57 am
Lol. This gave me a good chuckle.
From what you said It sounds like neither of the girls like you & either a) because they don’t know you or b) because they just aren’t interested. So…I guess you have to ask yourself if you think they would ever like you. Damn son.
Elena says:
February 1st, 2010 at 6:37 am
Just choose whichever one you are more comfortable with and can see yourself going long term with and ask them out. Don’t stress so much about it, relax and if it is meant to happen it will, at least you have a back up if one says no.
Psychic Readings by phone by an experienced Psychic says:
February 1st, 2010 at 12:06 pm
people who are saying to date both are stupid. you dont do that. and its not go loud or go home. its go hard or go home. nice try though. and as for youuuu, talk to both of them & see how it goes. then figure out who you wanna ask out.
Martin says:
February 1st, 2010 at 3:03 pm
Date both. Nothing wrong with asking out both. If one rejects there’s always hope with the other. If both agree, go on dates with both and choose who you prefer after the date. If none agree to go out with you, they probably move school!
Marta says:
February 1st, 2010 at 7:50 pm
i think you can pull off dating both, try your hardest to play them both. girls are dumb as **** all you gotta do is tell them u love them and u can get away with murder…i say in my honest expert opinion, do both bitches.
rYe gUy says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 1:29 am
I would choose #1 cuz your most comfortable with her, so what if she is loud? it matters what is inside.
answer mine too plz:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
Christin says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 2:25 am
Girl #1, it doesn’t matter what your friends think of her, it’s your girlfriend.
You’ve known her longer, which is good, being friends first is usually a good thing.
anti-spam says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 5:24 am
Ummmm, noone can make the choice for you lol. Im sure atleast one of them have an interest in you. Ill let someone else get into detail. They aren’t as much of objects as you would like to think
Robynn says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 6:28 am
2 your not friends with the guy nemore so it doesnt matter what he thinks.
but thats my opinion you should ask out the one you would prefer to spend them ost time with. loud people get on my nerves but im not you soo…
Ben Dover says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 12:05 pm
go with #2 first, looks like you have less of a chance. if not, go with #1. why would you care what your friends think, this is YOUR girl.
Tyler says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 12:48 pm
The loud ones are the most fun…belivie me besides your friends wont care how loud she is because their probably just as loud.
Stephen says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 4:56 pm
since you already have known #1 for a while you probably at least know enough about her to get a date and see how things go from there
G.I.P Blue says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 11:28 pm
If youre in the age where drinking and partying is cool, try and go to a party where they are and get them drunk!
Augustin says:
February 3rd, 2010 at 1:19 am
Ask out da non loud 1 dat ***** not a good friend if he stopped talking 2 u
malteseA says:
February 3rd, 2010 at 7:10 am
If neither of them are interested in you at all then why are you trying to decide which one to date?
Best Smartphone Software says:
February 3rd, 2010 at 12:15 pm
lmfao!
so whats your point?
niether of them like you,so what is this some fantasy thing?
whats the point of choosing between them again?
Alex says:
February 3rd, 2010 at 1:21 pm
would be better if you know them better before you decide to invite
Peter P says:
February 3rd, 2010 at 5:31 pm
Why can’t you date both? The first date is just to see if you like the girl. Date one then the other and see what happens…
Matt says:
February 4th, 2010 at 12:27 am
Loud girls are always the ones that let you put in in their butt. Go loud or go home.
Mr. me says:
February 4th, 2010 at 12:51 am
you should try the loud one dude. ive had fun with loud girls. they usually always have something to say and cud keep u entertained.
WP Autoblog Plugin says:
February 4th, 2010 at 7:28 am
their not worth it… u can always try to ask them but i think u would be better off without them.
btw who cares what ur friends think about the girls u like. if they make u happy then thats all that matters
I Have a Top Hat says:
February 4th, 2010 at 11:15 am
SO WHATS TEH QUESTION AGAIN?
KristenK says:
February 4th, 2010 at 3:20 pm
Get the nerves and do what NIKE says…
JUST DO IT!
Nicole k says:
February 4th, 2010 at 5:08 pm
First off, I’d get to know one of them a bit better and start off with being good friends with them. If you find that you guys really have something in common, try to step it up a level, but I wouldn’t decide if you really like them like that just yet… If you’re not so great with social dating situations, try going out with her (one of them) to an inexpensive place or going to each others houses and watching a movie or something for starters. There’s plenty of great sites that will help you with dating advice, trust me. Believe in yourself, think positive. And don’t leave deciding what to do to the flip of a coin…