Dating Advice Needed Badly (only Girls Answer Please)?
Ok, so I just got out of my most serious relationship (ever) with my Best Guy Friend, who I am still good friends with. Anyways, ever since we broke up, I’ve been so lonely and I just cannot seem to move on. However, I really want to move on! All my friends seem to find guys really easily, but somehow I dont (I’ve always been a little shy around new people). I really want to get a new boyfriend. I think it would be good for me and help me move on, and besides, I want a boyfriend and detest being single. Any advice for finding a boyfriend? Should I just get one of my friends to hook me up with someone?
Thanks!
Cay
Larkin L says:
February 3rd, 2010 at 7:04 pm
There are worse things than being alone. Sure, ask one of your friends to help.
lovely says:
February 3rd, 2010 at 8:21 pm
So your basically just looking for a re-bound guy? I mean you can’t think that because you detest being single means you need a boyfriend. Just getting out of a long-term relationship you should let yourself get over the relationship first. Its ok to be by yourself otherwise you could end up in a unhealthy relationship. Hang out with Friends go on dates & dont commit to just one person before you get to know them. You need to know how to be by yourself &be ok with it. Love yourself First!!
mommyof3 says:
February 3rd, 2010 at 9:27 pm
That’s always a good idea because then you have a personal reference. Have you ever thought about online dating? Here is a website that might also help you. Go to: http://www.datingtips247.com They have really good advice and links to dating sites. Good luck!
robertpa says:
February 3rd, 2010 at 11:27 pm
I am a guy and I will give you a little bit of advice.
You sound desperate to find a boyfriend, guys hate girls that are desperate!
Lisa'smo says:
February 4th, 2010 at 2:50 am
You have guys on a pedestal now. You are problem comparing guys to the one you lost. It might take a while. Don’t rush this.
Jayne Savage says:
February 4th, 2010 at 8:14 am
Let me tell you something about yourself that is Very important. You said ‘all my friends seem to find guys very easily, but I don’t’. That’s a GOOD thing. I know you don’t think so right now, cause you don’t want to be the only one without a guy, but believe me, it just means you’re a little more choosy and you’re going to find a much better guy than your friends will. You don’t just ‘find’ yourself a guy, girls that do that are either sluts or they’re desperate and will take anybody. Is there anyone you’re even a little interested in right now? Is there a cool, single guy at your school that you think is cute? If there is, talk to him. I know you’re shy, and there’s nothing wrong with that, but you can’t be so shy that you won’t even talk to a guy. You’ll find your guy when you’re NOT looking, that’s how it works. Plus, you do not NEED a guy, girls that NEED a guy and can’t live without one are total losers. It won’t hurt to have your friends hook you up with a guy, just make sure you know him a little before you decide you’re in love.