Dating Advice On Re-dating An Ex?
I had dated a guy last summer, it went well but i never really called him or tried to hard with him, he would do all of the work (call and text). I really wasn’t too serious about him, so I broke up with him (i heard he cried). So we have been talking again, and he said we should give it a second chance and we hooked up the other night. Yet, he only texts me occasionally during the day and doesn’t really call me. I dont know if i should do my usual and just not call him, unless he calls me or if i should show an effort?? I also wonder if hes really interested in me??
NneNne says:
March 1st, 2010 at 4:09 am
If you’re interested in him, you can try acting like it. You know, in the real world, the whole “I should wait blah blah amount of days to call” or “I don’t want to seem too interested” nonsense really doesn’t work. You’ve already broken up with him once before, so he’s probably proceeding with caution. If that’s the route you want to go, pursue it. Acting coy will just make him become disinterested and move on.
JB says:
March 1st, 2010 at 10:18 am
unless you really have a drive to be with this guy, o would not go out with him, because it sounds like even in ur first relationship u two were never completely infatuated. Live on and fall for a guy who will bring u some real excitement, and like u while u like him. good luck.
PS. it may hurt the guy or confuse him if u play with him too much. be straight with him. he deserves that.
k i n k y ??? says:
March 1st, 2010 at 2:42 pm
You need to have a talk with him. Ask him what his relationship goals are, and what he wants out of this relationship.
But, to have a successful relationship their needs to be effort put in by 2 people. Not one.
Free Smartphone Software says:
March 1st, 2010 at 8:27 pm
not worth it my friend, not worth it. ive seen this happen before and they end up breaking up anyways