Dating Advice Question…he’s Started Leaving Stuff At My Place?
I have been dating this guy for about 4 weeks now and we’ve been on about 7 or 8 dates. Recently I invited him to my place. I cooked us dinner and we watched a movie. He spent the night and when he was leaving the next day he decided to leave some of his movies at my house. I asked him if he was going to take his movies and he just said to leave them and we would watch them next time.
We have talked about the boyfriend/girlfriend thing, but we haven’t made anything official yet, but I guess my question is this: By him leaving things at my place is this a sign that we are moving towards becoming boyfriend/girlfriend or am I reading too much into this?”
Thanks!~
amy says:
January 31st, 2010 at 5:38 am
Yes I think it’s a sign. Maybe not a statement indicating you are officially bf/gf, but defiantly an indication that he plans to return. To me that means he is enjoying how things are going and is interested in where they might go. This is a good thing, so enjoy it!
IMHO If he keeps leaving his stuff, but isn’t moving in the same direction you want to, you need to decide if that’s ok with you. If it’s not then talk to him about it, and see where you both stand.