Dating Advice Serious Answers Only?
ok so let me give the run down first then the situation
I am 19 years old,go to community college.I have never dated a guy,kissed a guy,or had sex.i do not believe in sex before marriage.I do not drive or have a license,but that’s a different story.
I had to do a group project for my communications class.We got put in the groups by the teacher.Well this guy in my group is really hott. He is nice and sweet.I really want to talk to him.I need advice on how to talk to him.I need to find out if he has a gf or if he even wants one.I am not an outgoing person so this is very hard for me.I need help.he is got so many good things about him.I really am ready for my first bf but I need help
Thx 4 ur time (please be nice!)
sunshine says:
December 30th, 2009 at 8:52 am
you need to ask him if he wants to chill.
go to lunch. just hang out.
you seem kinda shy or self conscious.
and i think its time to step out of your shell girl.
go for him.
dont let it slip by.
and if it does,
dont worry. it would be your first time for everything.
good luck.
***Z*** says:
December 30th, 2009 at 10:35 am
if you’ve never been involved with anyone, you need a practice relationship first. you can’t go for the gold being inexperienced. it won’t turn out well.
Tickler =) says:
December 30th, 2009 at 12:21 pm
Wow! Its hard to believe in this modern society that at your age you have not had a boyfriendd. I am not saying there is anything wrong with that, I am justsurprisedd. I wish I had a promising answer for you but I do not. I can say that if you are confident in yourself that makes you moreattractivee and helps when you are approaching someone for the first time. I am a shy person too so, I know how difficult it can be. Good luck and remember, no matter what happens, to believe in yourself and know that one day you will find that perfect partner in life that was meant for you!
raverock says:
December 30th, 2009 at 6:09 pm
No problem I fdont think i would be mean anyways…. ok first of all you need to start a conversation by saying hello and continue on by saying how is your day and somewhere along then be like “if i may ask you a personal question” he’ll say go ahead thats when you say “do you have a gf” if he responds by saying yes why do you ask then say “well because Id like to get to know you and be friends” if he says no then say something like ” do you want to go to the movies with me sometime”
there I hope that helps
ibdastev says:
December 30th, 2009 at 8:09 pm
I met my wife in a class much like yours. She always came into class late, so I made shure the last seat available was always the one right next to me. Our first “date” was really a non-date. We worked late on our class project together, and I suggested we go get a bite to eat. We had a nice time at the restaurant next to campus, and on the way back, I brushed my hand against hers. She grabbed it back. We dated all through college, got married, and have been together 26 years. I owe it all to the “light approach”.