Dating Advice - Thoughts About My “guidelines For Dating Me?”?
this is my first post on here, I think Y! answers is pretty cool. I have a few dating “guidelines” & it seems to be causing me trouble but I refuse to revise them for a guy - my female friends think otherwise. Here’s the thing, I’m 27, a virgin, college educated and career minded, not really wanting kids, but I would like to get married soon. I believe in God but I’m not a “religious freak.” I wouldn’t live with a guy before I was married unless we were engaged and going to be married in a few months. I want to wait till I’m married to have sex & and I don’t care if my husband to be is a virgin or not as long as he’s honest, faithful, loving & successful. Most of the guys I meet want to have sex after 4 dates b/c that is what most girls in my age group do. I’m not condemning premarital sex, I don’t care what other people do to be honest, but it’s not for me. Also, guys get mad after we have been dating for awhile & I won’t move in with them. What do you think, advice. TY.
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Kir S says:
December 17th, 2009 at 7:09 am
Try meeting people in a church group. Or try eharmony.com. I have a few friends who have met their fiances/husbands on there. The people on eharmony tend to be more relationship-oriented. I think your values are very important to you, and you aren’t being rediculous. I was expecting to see “he has to be 6′3″ with blue eyes and brown hair and make $70000 a year and have a PhD and stuff like that. Your requirements are based in your core personal values. That’s not something that you should change to meet the needs or desires of a guy. You will find a guy who understands your values, respects them, and loves you because of them. If the guy gets mad because you won’t have sex, then he doesn’t respect your values and isn’t for you. The same thing if he gets mad because you won’t move in with him. If he’s willing to move in with you, he should be willing to make a firm commitment in marriage.
teacherm says:
December 17th, 2009 at 8:27 am
I admire you to be honest. You seem like a great girl. The right guy will come along when you least expect it, really. Keep to your “commandments” because they are you and make up what you stand for. They are all great. The guy that pushes you do to something ultimately is a jerk and you need to push him away.
bk says:
December 17th, 2009 at 12:32 pm
thats quite admirable, especially in this day and age. you’ve come this far, hold on! there are genuine guys out there. i would suggest church groups. you are bound to find somebody looking for exactly you!
DiiMuN says:
December 17th, 2009 at 1:13 pm
Lol it would be hard with these ten commandments or DEATH notes luck may pay off GOOd luck.
weekly says:
December 17th, 2009 at 7:39 pm
You believe in God right? Let him lead you!
asap travel says:
December 18th, 2009 at 12:14 am
go to church cuz there might b a few guys like that there…