Dating Advice…well Sort Of..lol?
Hey guys…I feel like I am in a real dilemma at the moment I really hope I can get some advice.
Basically, there is this guy who is friends with my best friend and I know that she really likes him but he doesn’t feel the same way about her. Now she has a boyfriend of her own and I am single and this guy has asked me out and I like him but I am really scared to tell my friend and am thinking about not going out with him incase it upsets her and I really don’t want to lose her. She has hinted that she knows he likes me and seems ok ish with it but I really just want to say that he has asked me out but honestly, she is my best friend and I don’t want to risk falling out with her over it. What do you think I should do? I know I sound really stupid as she already has a man (who lives with her) and I know that this guy who has asked me out doesn’t like her in the same way that she likes him.
It sounds so trivial but I really need help with this! xxx



Laney H says:
January 26th, 2010 at 8:25 pm
Go for it girl! Her chance has been and gone! Be happy x
riettebo says:
January 27th, 2010 at 3:17 am
Just be honest with your friend and talk to her. If whe is a good friend she will let you be happy.
athina68 says:
January 27th, 2010 at 6:45 am
she has her man now and i dont think it should bother her ..otherwise what she has is just a fake relationship ????
anyway , go out with him and talk to her too
if she is ur friend she will understand and feel ok with it !
swarovski crystals says:
January 27th, 2010 at 11:18 am
HUn if you and your friend are really go friends then you shouldnt let some guy come in between that. Now she has a boyfriend and you are single. I think that its ok for you to go ahead and go out with him. But then that i sup to you. tell your friend that you are gonig to go out with him and that you are telling her because you dont want this to ruin your relationship with her. tell her that there is no way that some guy should ruin your friendship. A friendship is better.
shellydo says:
January 27th, 2010 at 5:50 pm
if she has already got a man she should have no problem with it if she does that is just selfish she should be happy to see you happy go for it love
2 good 2 miss says:
January 27th, 2010 at 10:57 pm
You started off saying Dating advice… well sort of..lol?
I’m curious….. is it just me or was there nothing funny in that sent ace to warrant having a lol at the end?….. and why is there a question mark when that isn’t a question?….
Ps…. Thanks for your added info…
I know the question mark comes up by default… Its just not a question so i was being Ironic.
As for asking questions…. I have them but not just for the sake of it like alot of people do on here because they think its a chat site…. stupid questions like “what are you having for tea”… total yawn!!!! lol lol… ops, the most over used thing on here.
yogimacc says:
January 27th, 2010 at 11:03 pm
this ones easy. ask her if she is up for a three/foursome
Hayley C says:
January 28th, 2010 at 3:44 am
You should ask her and explain how you feel but technically she has no right to moan as they were never involved and why should she care now shes living with her new fella!