How to get a girlfriend

For far too many men, and you may be one of them, meeting and dating women all too often turns out to be a difficult and awkward experience. The fact is though that it really should be fun and exciting and it will be, once you’ve learned how to make it so. Now learning about dating a trial and error can be a painful experience, so it’s always best if you get your knowledge from others who have gone before you. Men who have taken the time to study the female brain.

So of course the first step is in getting the girls phone number and for all too many men, this alone is a difficult process. Once again though it need not be, just as long as you take the right approach. Now what you may find surprising, is that if done right, women tend to respond better to commands rather than requests. So what’s worked for me in the past, is to simply ask a woman if she has a pencil and a small piece of paper. After she produces, it simply tell her writer number down. Works like a charm.

Now if I was out in a bar or nightclub where we were sitting together, my next trick was to do what I called take her on an “imaginary date”. After I had her phone number in my pocket I would then move the conversation onto what we were going to do on this date. I would go on into details about the food, where we would you go, what we would do etc. etc. By doing so you see, it would put the girl into a mindset where in a way she felt as if we had already been on a date. What I found was that after this that they were more likely to go home with me that night.

Now anytime anyone asks me where the best place to take a girl on a date is, I always have one response, and that is straight home to your place. You’d be surprised just how many girls will go for it too if you only have what it takes to pull it off. After you pick her up to take her out, simply tell you have to stop by her place for a minute to pick something up. Tell you left your wallet there, so you simply have to do it. Then when you get there, just invite her in for a drink.

Now similar trick that has worked for me in the past, is to swing by the supermarket with her after you’ve picked her up. Tell her you need to stop and buy “something” because you don’t want forget and you need it tomorrow. Make up some story. Shopping in a supermarket with your date triggers thoughts of “domesticity” in their brain. She’ll see you more as a mate than just a date. Also you can always buy something together to “take home” and prepare a your place.

Through it all it’s important not lose track of one very important fact, and that is that the whole reason for a date, is to have sex with a female. Of course you may have some type of relationship in mind as well, and so may she. Even so, without sex there will be no real relationship. So why not work to simply get the sex over with as quickly as possible, so you get on the talking to her about more important matters.

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