Going Too Fast Or Too Slow? Help!! New To Dating!!? Need Advice!?
I really need help with this whole dating thing.
I’ve never done anything, and he’s done like everything. I’ve had this crush on this guy forever it seems. now randomly we started hanging out n he asked me out. i find myself wanting to avoid him.. when ever i talk to him i feel like i say or do something wrong. when he touches my neck or shoulders, or if he slips his hands around my waist i cringe.. lol, does this make any sense?! I’ve never had a boyfriend.. never wanted to, but since i liked him so much before.. i said yes.
I know i like him, i’m just not used to any of this. i’m used to having guy friends n i dont know how i should act when i’m with him..? i tried to tell him to cut me some slack cuz i’m new to this, n he said he knew i was and that he was trying to take things extra slow so that i would trust him.. but.. this is wierd.. but i got this really creepy feeling when he was telling me this. it’s like, what do u expect me to do with u once i trust u..? i dont know how to explain it…
the whole school knows we’re dating n they think it’s so random since we’re complete opposites. they call him our school’s biggest womanizer..lol, and i’m kinda like a virgin saint, haha. i just feel bad it he’s expecting something more from me, b/c i wont do stuff..
i just need some over all advice.
People come up to me and tell me he seems serious about dating.. i dk, i still dont know how i feel about it. We dont even know each other that well. he wants to hang out all the time, but my parents are really strict.. anyway,
How can i make this all work out? what should i watch out for?
thanks so much for the help! srry if it’s messed up.. 
Colton H says:
January 26th, 2010 at 5:34 am
Just tell him that you have never dated before and you really want to take it slow. Tell him that your not very comfortable yet doing things like touching each other. It can be very awkward doing things like this in a relationship when you don’t know what to do. Communication is the key in these things. Tell him that you just want to hang out and not do all these things. If he really likes you he should understand.
When you are with him, just be yourself. Don’t try to over impress, and don’t think you are doing anything wrong. Because your not! He could be just trying to play you and thats NOT WHAT YOU WANT.
Just talk to him and tell him how you feel.