I Really Need Some Dating Advice?
So its april second and i am going on a date tommorrow night with the girl i adore! first of all shes really hot and i want to make sure i am the right dude. first what should i wear? what resturant should i take her too? (i have only 130 dollars no place too expensive thanks!) Oh and i live in Cali. as in california for those of yo uwho have no clue at all.
what should i talk about?
should i make any nice comments?
how do i take it smooth
mariko m says:
January 8th, 2010 at 11:48 pm
I’ve had good success with online dating. Nearly all are free to join and it’s a fun way to flirt online. http://www.cutelocal.com I’m sure there are tons of California singles online that you can interact with.
T-money says:
January 9th, 2010 at 6:33 am
Just be yourself. Ask what she likes, what her hobbies are, perhaps what her parents are like. Just don’t ask questions 24/7 as that can be annoying. Make sure you just continue the conversation. Talk about the news as it shows that you’re interested in what’s happening around the world and makes you sound intelligent. Throw one or two nice comments in there but don’t say a lot. That just makes you sound like you’re obsessed with her, etc. I’d say take her to someplace that isn’t too expensive (not McDonald’s) but nothing too fancy, perhaps a common place where locals like to go, etc. I’d suggest wearing jeans and a nice shirt as that’s usually considered hip and trendy. Just be yourself and have a good time. There’s no need to go all out on the first date because the first date may be the last date who knows! Good luck!
WP Autoblog Software says:
January 9th, 2010 at 12:44 pm
get her flowers but not roses! don’t get physical and don’t go for a kiss– not yet! I’m not sure what part of cali your from… so cal or nor cal (or your age) so i can’t really suggest anything as far a restaurants. BUT compliment her but don’t go overboard to make her think you say that sort of thing to everyone oh oh and wear a nice button down top but don’t look like your going all out so pair it with a dark pair of jeans and some nice shoes. open her door, when the waiter or waitress comes around to ask “is everything okay?” rather than just say “yes” look to your date and ask her “are you okay? do you need anything?” that shows your looking out for her =) when the date is over walk her to her door but just hug her no kiss. leave her wanting more and have her thinking of how special you made her feel! =)
good luck
lohilani says:
January 9th, 2010 at 1:27 pm
Wear something casual but not too casual. Some nice jeans, and a nice dress shirt, with shoes. Don’t be too fancy, cause she might not be.. and that would be a little weird.
As for the restaurant - you should find out what she likes to eat, then go from there. If she likes to try new things you can too, go somewhere different! The food might not be GREAT but the date may be! (:
You should just let the conversation flow, if you over think this you probably won’t say much. You should tell her she looks beautiful or pretty - not HOT. That sorta will ruin the romantical moment. If ya know whaat i mean. Just let the date flow - You know go with the flow. And if you do try something new that’ll be a conversation starter and probably ender - because you both don’t know what you’re trying and will both have different or same views. You’ll learn stuff about each other!
Don’t be too nervous! You’re gonna naturally be nervous about the first date and how it goes and all that, but don’t think about it too much!! Don’t stress over it, just go out with her and have a good time! Good Luck On Your Date
star69 says:
January 9th, 2010 at 6:29 pm
Stop worrying if your image and slick attitude are properly polished. Relax and be yourself, tell her you adore her. I dont know many women who can resist that! Dont try for a posh place, go somewhere small and a bit quiet so you can hear each other talk but without being afraid to speak.
The movies is a good place to hold hands in the dark. Or more if she starts something! A nice romantic one, if you can stay awake
Joga Bonito #7 says:
January 9th, 2010 at 8:41 pm
wear some nice blue jeans with a black casual dress shirt, take her somewhere like idk apple bees (people love apple bees!) after take her to the movies so that will give you something to talk about before u take her home, at the restaurant just be yourself talk about whatever you always talk about with her and just have fun i’ve noticed that if you try to hard you wont do to well (trust me bro i know!) defiantly make a nice comment or two
when you see her you should say something like hey beautiful how are you (my girl loves it when i say good morning beautiful to her!)
good luck bro
and remember just have fun
darcymc says:
January 10th, 2010 at 12:01 am
how old are you both..that would help and what kind of date to go on
i assume you are young since you said “hot”
and if you are in your teens 130 is ALOT for a date
so really i dont know what kind of advice to give you on a date because your value system is all messed up
edited to add
130 is alot for any age date..sigh …
Scott C says:
January 10th, 2010 at 1:42 am
dude u should have put your age up but anyway u sound like a teenager if am wright don’t worry about it just be honest with her talk about music and how you day way and tell her that’s she looks beautiful in what ever shes wearing and i dont live in the usa so i guess $130 dollars is like £60-£65 i think thats plenty to go out and have a great meal i was in the usa and the food was cheep so dont sweat just be your self and am sure it will all go fine good luck
Phil says:
January 10th, 2010 at 3:56 am
hard question because it deals with the uniqueness of the girl you are dating. Not every girl likes Italian food and not every girl is impressed by spending a great deal of money (who’d have thought?). you have to be original, and creative.
My idea is Dinner and Mini golf. A cheap and fairly easy “sport,” it allows for some physical contact when you have to give her a crash course on how to hold the putter.
Good Luck
acehi18 says:
January 10th, 2010 at 10:18 am
check this out;most sexy girls are used to people going out of there way to make them happy.so the best way to catch her eye is too treat her like a sexy friend. unless she spoiled rotten then you just act like you could give a **** less and she’ll be all over you.
aqua_akh says:
January 10th, 2010 at 1:31 pm
first thing you say is “You look beautiful tonight” NOT YOU LOOK HOT…ok i mean seriously its a date so try beautiful.
Then $130 thats a lot..for food
Ask her what her favorite food is and go there. =)
wear…idk im not a guy but something romantic..
Dont just be quiet while waiting for your food..ask her questions like whats your favorite _____ whatever it is its better than being QUIET.
wayne says:
January 10th, 2010 at 8:07 pm
First…..all those question are irrelevant,only thing is to NOT spend a lot of money, Dress just nice, settle yourself down, and keep saying over and over…..im cool and not a wuss. Women hate wusses and weak men …so stop it NOW This is one of the most important things for you to learn.
cadilac says:
January 11th, 2010 at 12:14 am
make sure you compliment her on wat she’s wearing… and don’t get to comfortable take it slow…dnt show u r nervous…ask how is skool goin what are her likes and dislikes..when is her birthday..how many siblings does she have…is she the oldest oor youngest..what are her life goals..and you shuld take her to red lobster cheap and good…wher something casual don’t go all out
Amber says:
January 11th, 2010 at 2:32 am
wear something casual and comfortable…take her to a couples relaxed envrironment restaurant… talk about her, what are her interests, is she looking for a serious relationship?, tell her she looks stunning” yes “stunning” girls love big word compliments… taking it smooth… relax man.
davisgeo says:
January 11th, 2010 at 6:54 am
When you are sitting in the car making small talk, ask her if you can kiss her. While kissing her take her hand and place it in your lap. You will know instantly if you turn her on. If things go right you will have a great night! If not, well………….
Chelsea says:
January 11th, 2010 at 7:20 am
just be yourself. if you treat her to nicely she will expect that from now on. Don’t treat her any way you don’t plan to treat her for the duration of the time you are dating.
Wear what would be acceptable for whatever resteraunt you decide on.
captainc says:
January 11th, 2010 at 12:18 pm
Hey, the best thing to do is act yourself. Dress respectable and compliment on things that should be complimented on. Seriously, just take her someplace nice and just relax.
Wiz says:
January 11th, 2010 at 2:37 pm
forget all this crap you are asking about and just be yourself. $130 is more than enough money for 4 dates. Wear clothes that are appropriate to wherever you are going. Talk about things you have in common.
BabyChic says:
January 11th, 2010 at 6:04 pm
Wear something nice to your date with your girl…Take her somewhere nice…Ask her what she would like to talk about get her opinions…When you first meet her you should say “You’re so beautiful, or You look like an angle”…Good luck bro
Shani says:
January 11th, 2010 at 6:44 pm
firstly…stop worrying!!!!!!!!!!!! secondly…just be yourself…shes probably just as nervous as you are!!!!!!!!!! thirdly…girls love complements and a good sense of humour… fourthly…just relax and go and have fun!!!!!
good luck!!!!!!!!!! :-))
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January 12th, 2010 at 12:06 am
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michaelv says:
January 12th, 2010 at 4:54 am
I would take it slowly and make some comments,
Just don’t go out of the way for any physical contact on your first date