I”m A Shy Person And I Need Dating Advice!?
Okay, i am only 13 and i have rely liked this girl for a while and her friends kept telling her that she rely liked me. I asked her out and now i dont know what to do… i text her alot and compliment her and im inviting her to a cookout and to the movies. Any advice on how to be a good boyfriend even though im rely shy would be appreciated, especially about my first kiss. Thanks in advance if you help.
ILuvTheB says:
December 13th, 2009 at 10:28 am
being your age and a girl i can help you. i just experienced the world of dating a couple of days ago. Most girls like a guy who can lend them an ear so they can talk to them about their problems and lend them a shoulder if they’re down. Since you’re shy i would suggest taking her somewhere that you don’t have to talk very much like a movie or something. It doesn’t matter if you’re shy or not when it comes to your first kiss let your instincts take over. if your stuck follow this advice
1. Smile a lot before you go in for the kiss. Seeing you smile will put her in a playful mood.
2.Look into her eyes a lot. You can see what she’s thinking through her eyes. They will tell you if she wants to kiss you or not.
3. if you’re at the movies nd there is an armrest between you put your arm there and hold you hand palm facing up. she might put her hand in there.
4. Look at her a lot! even if she doesn’t look at you just look at her at any random moment.
Once she gives you a signal that she wants to kiss just lean in and let your natural instincts kick in. they will get you through it.
Good Luck!
and if that doesn’t work try acting like Paul McCartney (trust me EVERY girl wanted a piece of him)
Go get her tiger
Mainoki says:
December 13th, 2009 at 1:08 pm
You doing perfectly fine. If there is a dance at your school ask her to it. As for the first kiss do it when the time and setting is right. Like a quite part of a movie or if you two are alone at the cookout you invited her to. And for your shyness. Try to coax yourself out of your shell when your around her. Trust me I know how it is being a shy person.
^.^ says:
December 13th, 2009 at 1:51 pm
well don’t kiss her on the first date unless she makes the first move, you don’t wanna scare her or anything..
pay for her at whereever you’re going and say it’s my pleasure and don’t let her pay you back, that’ the way to impress..
hold her hand heaps and make her snuggle into you at the movies..
oh and ask her if she wants anything to eat or drink at the movies.
just be a real gentleman and talk don’t just stand there being quieet okay and don’t winge if you don’t like the movie just be cool
hahah good luck!
best answer plz!
JabbaG says:
December 13th, 2009 at 5:19 pm
well when and if u kiss, lean forward like 80% and look her in the eyes, then she might lean depending on ur timing and setting. then gently perk ur lips to go in between hers. make sure u got chapstick ur lips aren’t too dry or wet. or just say i think ur beautiful and would like to kiss u when ur alone. but dont use tongue unless she does first. make sure its not a perk on the lips neither. i hate those. a good one is at least 4 sec. to be a good bf u should:
pay for dates
always compliment her
dont ditch her for frends but dont ditch frends for her
stay faithful, like dont flirt/kiss/etc w/ other girls
and hold hands.
if people say aww or make it awkward embrace it and say yeah we go out. stand up for her .if u put ur arm around her do it like 4in above her waist on her ower back. too high means “friend” too low means “i want to squeeze”