Major Dating Advice, I Really Need Help!?!?!?!?
Okay, so I’m dating somebody. He’s like…super short (not that it matters). He was my friend last year but we tried going out. We’re basically still just buds but we’re “dating”. It’s not like our relationship is going to go anywhere. Like…it’s not. I know that he really likes me, but I just don’t feel the same way about him. I tried breaking up w/ him before, but he got all depressed, so I tried going out w/ him again.
Now, there is this REALLY hot guy that I’ve liked for a while…and he just asked me out. I said that I’ll think about it. He just went out w/ my friend like yesterday, but she was just mean to him (my friend is mean, if you knew her, you would knoww.). So they broke up. Now he is asking me out. Yesterday, he was thinking between us and chose her. Now he is choosing me.
Should I break up with my BF to go out with him?
If you answer, I’ll love you forever. (:
TANK YOU!
Soccerdu says:
February 1st, 2010 at 3:25 am
no1 cares
Plistifi says:
February 1st, 2010 at 5:33 am
Yea. be shallow. It’s ok. Just cause a guy is hot doesn’t mean u should totally destroy the guy ur with. If u like the hot guy and he really likes u then tell him u need a week or so to break it off with your boyfriend 1st. Otherwise ur boyfriend/friend is gonna end up hating you and everything is gonna end badly. Espically when the hot guy dumps u for ur friend again cause ur gonna b too much of a mean girl too.
Kelsea M says:
February 1st, 2010 at 9:18 am
I know it will be hard, but you should go with your heart. If you really don’t like the guy you’re currently going out with, then don’t keep going out with him. It’s not fair to him or you. You’ll just be leading him on and torturing yourself. If you really like the other guy, then go out with him. Don’t pass up something you’ve been waiting for just because you’re stuck in a relationship you don’t want.
Joe says:
February 1st, 2010 at 9:36 am
Well, odds are that you will have a relationship (not necessarily romantic) with your best friend for a while, if you can come to terms with him. Remember that when choosing out the ‘hot guy,’ your most likely not going to be even friends with him forever. Just take that into consideration.
Lexi says:
February 1st, 2010 at 10:48 am
don’t listen to the people that say “don’t go out with your friends ex” because you said they were only going out for what, a day? its not like you could fall in love with someone in a day so don’t worry about that.. and because you don’t like your current boyfriend in that way just tell him that. and then give the guy you find VERY ATTRACTIVE a chance i mean i would do it.. good luck
Niki says:
February 1st, 2010 at 3:35 pm
You shouldn’t date someone you don’t like, but it also sounds like this new guy may not like you that much. I’d say leave the first guy, just gently tell him it isn’t work, and get to know the other guy a little better before you officially start dating him.
LOVE YOU. says:
February 1st, 2010 at 8:27 pm
oh hell! now hear this…if you want to dump your bf then do it!, but dont run to this guy!…you came in 2nd place with him!..and thats stupid!….he sounds like a player, and he went out with your friend, and you would be a bad friend to go out with him, the day after they broke up!
Sam says:
February 1st, 2010 at 9:09 pm
It seems to like you’ve been trying to make everyone else happy except yourself so try making yourself happy. Everything else will fall into place then.
emil says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 3:23 am
which one you really like so much or love, and believe that you will be happy with him,Choose that one. think not only sensationally also think rationally
Latrice says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 5:47 am
Don’t pick neither you don’t like the short guy and the hot guy chose you second, so continue your search
Linsey says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 6:37 am
If you don’t like the guy your dating then break up with him and say yes to the other guy…Don’t worry about your current boyfriend’s feelings if he really likes you then he will understand…so go for the one you like!!!
John D says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 7:47 am
pick the guy who treats you the best. if your current bf is nice to you and satisfies you then dont leave him. if your missing something then pick the new guy.
safety says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 10:16 am
Don’t date your friends ex’s. you have no idea how much drama it starts, even if she says its okay…
Believe me. I’m in that situation right now.
Precious says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 11:38 am
No. No. No. No.
I. Love. You. <3 says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 1:20 pm
No, just wait a lil longer. Dont go out with the hot guy bc that will bring problems bt u and ur friend.
yomomma says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 3:41 pm
go with the one who treats you better
mnmluva says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 7:50 pm
how old are you?
Natalia says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 11:42 pm
Okay, so your first paragraph is exactly my situation right now, for which I just posted a question a few minutes ago. With the second paragraph, you say your friend went out with him but dumped him- be careful here, if she actually doesn’t like him anymore and you’ve asked her specifically if she would mind you going out with him and she says it’s cool, then it’s okay. Dump your platonic “boyfriend” (you shouldn’t worry about what he’s going to feel as much as what you’re going to feel if you’re miserable trying to make other people happy), but don’t advertise that you dumped him for the hot guy. And find out why your friend dumped the hot guy, it might be useful.
fknmelan says:
February 3rd, 2010 at 3:58 am
I think that you shouldn’t date either of them. The first one is a really good friend and dating will ruin that. The second one pretty much thinks of you as a rebound which will lead to him hurting you eventually. He only picked you because he found out how your friend really was. Who knows what he would think of you, even if you are nice and stuff like that. I used too go through that stuff all the time, just when you date someone, try to get to know them for awhile and from then on make a decision. It’ll save yourself from being hurt.
mademoiselle victoria says:
February 3rd, 2010 at 6:42 am
Do whatever you want, but i wouldn’t go with the guy who just asked you out because he might just be asking you out because he likes you at the moment. it doesn’t sound like he really wants to be with, he just thinks your pretty or something. stay with the guy you are with right now and wait untill someone that is absolutely perfect comes along. plus if he went back and forth between you and your friend, thats not a good sign either
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