Need Dating Advice!! Not Sure If She Is Into Me, Please Help?
I met this girl at a bar and she was an ex girlfriend of a friend i barely knew in high school. She gave me her number and said we can start out as friend and then see what happens. I asked her if this is a bit weird since I used to know your ex i don’t want to put you in an uncomfortable spot. She said it’s fine I wouldn’t be giving you my number if i felt weird about it. So I have called her up about 2 times maybe in the last 2 weeks and I have asked her we should do something sometime but I never set anything up for sure. The last time I called I asked her waht she was doing over the weekend she said she had no plans..so i asked we should do something she said it was fine but to call her tomorrow so we can set it up. I don’t get this what difference does it make from today to tomorrow. Is this a way of saying leave me alone or could this be because I am not giving her a date and time just kind of saying we should do something? I am not sure I am getting mixed signals..please Help!
Allie says:
February 28th, 2010 at 9:24 am
Maybe she’s just trying to be low-key about it. If she acts over-excited and plans to specifically go out with you, she might be scared at the fact that you may interpret it as a date. If she didn’t want to go out with you at all, I’m sure she would have told you. Just play it cook and see what happens…that’s why they call it dating, you’re not set to marry the girl
Good luck!
woobinat says:
February 28th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
She’s not the problem here…you are. She’s clearly given you open opportunities to act on this, and waiting for you to be a man about it…which you haven’t really done. You’re too busy being stuck in wuss mode, and steadily losing ground. She wanted you to take charge…you didn’t. Get your self-confidence together, or you’re gonna blow it. Call her up and say, “Hey, I’ve got two tickets for ____,” or something else, but have a plan and act on it. Keep dragging your feet and being “mealy-mouthed” about it, and she’s gonna bail (if she hasn’t already)
The universal truth is: WOMEN ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO WEAK MEN!!!
types of eczema says:
February 28th, 2010 at 6:47 pm
hm.. if she gave you her number, she cant think youre too weird.. most girls are pretty wary of creepy guys and dont give just anyone their number… Maybe she is just busy, or maybe she has a boyfriend? Just ask her like “heyy, want to go to starbucks?” or something like that… something low key, with alot of people… but dont ask her on Thursday “heyy want to go to starbucks with me next week?” thats just dorky… Call her up and be like “heyy, I’m headed to starbucks in like an hour, meet me there?”