Need Some Dating Advice - Met This Girl Online?
Met this girl through an online dating site, we met for drinks and hit it off. She is gorgeous, smart, successful, and there was definitely chemistry between us. A week later, I took her out to dinner and we had a great time. Didn’t hear from her for a couple of days, called her and asked her if she wanted to get together again. She had plans. Waited five days, called her again (expected a no) but she said she wanted to go out again and we met for dinner. We had an amazing kiss at the end of dinner and I thought things went really well (this was Sunday). And she said she definitely wanted to get together again. Sent her a text when I got home telling her that I had fun. She didn’t respond. I sent her an email about this place I want to take her to this weekend. No response.
Whats going on here? If she isn’t interested, why the long kiss? Why three dates? Why talk about the next date?
Am I being too aggressive by calling/texting? I’m not calling everyday (more like once per 4 days) but I feel like I’m the only one making the effort.
I like her. I’m hoping things continue but I’m confused.
The question now is how best to handle this situation.
Should I tell her that I am getting mixed signals and ask her whats what?
Just not call her and wait for her call/text/email and if she doesn’t then oh well?
Just call her again and tell her about this cool place I want to take her and if she wants to get together this weekend?
Tell her that I am not feeling like she is interested and that I am moving on?
So what does the world think?
Murderdo says:
February 1st, 2010 at 1:18 am
I dont have a clue why she is acting that way at all. Even as a girl i dont understand why she is doing that at all, i wouldnt treat any person like that. Well i think the best thing is to be honest with her and just call her or next time you see her ask her what is going on because she says she wants to go out again with you one minute and completely cuts you off the next so its definately worth asking her. There could be a reasonable explanation why she is doing this but i dont know. Ask her if shes still interested and if she says yeah then ask her what is going on then take it from there.