Need Some Dating Advice….can Anyone Help Me?
Ok, well there’s this really pretty girl who I’ve been going to school with for a while, i asked her out at the begining of the year and she already had a boyfriend. So we were friends after that. But lately she has been like flirting with me, like saying you are cute and funny. My friend went out with her and didn’t like her. So should i ask her out or no?
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Bobby Light says:
February 21st, 2010 at 1:26 am
Yeah u should. Make sure u got the right time/place/setting. Make it special ya know
One Wing Burning says:
February 21st, 2010 at 6:27 am
Been in the same spot bro. If you’ve asked her out before and she had a boyfriend, then she knows you already like her. That’s a plus for you if she’s talking to you like that, calling you cute and funny. Make sure she’s single of course so you don’t look like an idiot, but give it a shot. Worked for me. If you’re not ready to yet, then just keep talking to her and showing her your best until you are sure your ready and that you’ll not be waisting your time. Go for it if you’re ready. Good Luck
Charlotte H says:
February 21st, 2010 at 8:43 am
Coming from a girl, i say don’t do it too quickly after ur friend just went out with her. Because from her point of view it probably seems like this “OMG just because i went out with his friend he thinks he can just jump on it like that?!”
and trust me, you don’t want that. Show her you’re the better guy and you actually really like her and dont just want to get with her.. So get to know her for a couple more weeks and then she’ll be totally stoked when you ask her out.
Oh, and don’t flirt with any other girls.. at least not too much, a little jelousy is ok
Ostha says:
February 21st, 2010 at 12:07 pm
Girls can be very misleading. My best friend is a male, and still thinks from time to time that I’m hitting on him when I’m not. If you like her, and believe she’s flirting with you, flirt back! Show her that you’re the right guy for her, and she’ll more than likely want you. If the flirting becomes more consistent, and more often then you need to ask her about it and see if that’s really what’s going on. If so, then totally go for it.
Question says:
February 21st, 2010 at 5:55 pm
I would. Make sure that she is single. Do it casual like. I would say something like “Do you wanna go out sometime?” and take your cues from there. If she says something like “ya I could bring my friend so and so and we could all hang out” then she doesn’t want to date you. If she gets all bashful then she wants to date you.
dadance_ says:
February 21st, 2010 at 10:29 pm
if its a really good friend who went out with her, i think you should trust your friend’s advice. ask him about what the date was like, and maybe you and the girl had more alike qualities than your friend. but honestly, i dont know why you would be asking this kind of question on here. but whatever.
babyblue says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 1:56 am
If she’s single, and you like her–sure. Just because your friend didn’t like her very well doesn’t mean you won’t. Give it a shot!! Make sure you tell your friend that you are doing that. He really shouldn’t mind, but it’s a nice gesture for you to do that. It shows that you value your friendship. You don’t want him to find out from someone else, right? Good luck!
anniebor says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 4:19 am
Everyone has a different opinion on people. Maybe your friend doesn’t like her because he hurt her and he doesn’t want to admit it. Anyways, you never know unless you give it a shot. you have nothing to lose, so I say you ask her out and see what happens from there.
LifeWith says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 7:28 am
yes.
it’s just that simple..
don’t keep thinking about it. thats where you mess up.
that’s where most people mess up.
lose your mind and ask the girl to atleast go out on a date with you.
hey, what do you have to lose?
honestly.
SyDnAyY says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 9:17 am
U should go fer it!!! Just start up a convo wit her one day, compliment how she looks, just make sure its the right time then ask her out! Its obvious she likes u. Obvious u like her so yeah u should ask her out.
Chris says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 9:23 am
if its what you feel is right then go for it. if you want a relationship with her and she seems like she likes you then ask her out before its to late.
Strip says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 12:27 pm
If you change your relationship from friends to something else, you can not go back. It will be different and not comfortable.
Kayla says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 7:15 pm
It all depends if you like her. Your friend mught not have, but I bet you two are different.
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Halee Lynn says:
February 22nd, 2010 at 9:47 pm
I would say definitely go for it. She seems into you. Good Luck!
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? says:
February 23rd, 2010 at 4:03 am
Ask her out if you like her. But you have to make sure that she is single so you don’t get a no again
Best of luck!!!
Saphy says:
February 23rd, 2010 at 8:05 am
thats totaly up to you. different people have different opinions in people so she just may not be your friends type but possibly yours. totaly up to you. =)
oj says:
February 23rd, 2010 at 9:11 am
Well if you dont know her well enough to decide then maybe you should take more time to be friends and get to know her.
Hummer H1 Parts says:
February 23rd, 2010 at 3:26 pm
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Isabela says:
February 23rd, 2010 at 6:23 pm
No. Don’t bother. Find someone better.
Jacob says:
February 24th, 2010 at 12:44 am
ask her out if you like her
LittLe MiSs CuRiOus says:
February 24th, 2010 at 2:22 am
If you still like her then yes. and it doesn’t matter if you’re friend didn’t like her, everyone likes different things.
Artisan says:
February 24th, 2010 at 4:06 am
she obviously likes you but it’s your decision.
Henry says:
February 24th, 2010 at 10:17 am
It seems like she likes you. But be sure she is single this time.
Good Luck
Kloe meets city. says:
February 24th, 2010 at 11:59 am
It depends if she still has that boyfriend. Otherwise, go for it!!
scarface says:
February 24th, 2010 at 5:10 pm
If you like her, ask her out.
Krisy :) says:
February 24th, 2010 at 7:47 pm
Yeah! Totally ask her out! If she is single
Alli says:
February 24th, 2010 at 11:07 pm
Are you sure she’s single this time? If so then go for it! Best of luck!
Ken R says:
February 25th, 2010 at 3:57 am
Ask her out…… she might be the one
del445 says:
February 25th, 2010 at 7:44 am
yes.
chazz says:
February 25th, 2010 at 11:30 am
yeah! if your friend doesn’t like her he won’t care… I quit liking my x and I let my friend date her