Please Help Me With Some Dating Advice About My Bf. Thanks.?
I have been dating a mormon for about six months now. Every time he drops me off the kisses are literaly pecks. Or when we are alone together they are about like one second. We are both in our 20’s. Are mormons against passionate kissing. Is this normal? Maybe he is trying to give me a sign.
Black King of All White Women says:
January 13th, 2010 at 8:58 am
You should date a black man
remix456 says:
January 13th, 2010 at 2:37 pm
If you are both in your 20s and dating for 6 months, and he only gives you a little kiss, dump him. He’s not right for you. He’s not giving you a sign( except to dump him )
philippine travel agencies says:
January 13th, 2010 at 5:39 pm
Sadly, Black King is right. Once you go black, you’ll never go back.
Disciple of Jesus says:
January 13th, 2010 at 7:41 pm
maybe he’s got other girls or wives to kiss and he doesn’t want your scent all over him.
aren’t mormons polygamists?
Dances with Poultry says:
January 14th, 2010 at 1:02 am
I’m guessing, but it could be simply a sign of respect for you. LDS males are pretty much ingrained and indoctrinated about morality and the priesthood.
I’m also guessing that he’s not a returned missionary. These guys are a lot more pressured into getting married ASAP, so a little peck doesn’t suggest any urgency. Also, RMs are more in the market for a Molly Mormon type.
Another consideration is he may be gay. Mormons are very anti-gay homophobic people, and consider homosexuality to be both a sin and a sickness requiring a cure. He could be trying to fit the mold.
A serious discussion with him will do both of you a world of good. Being totally honest now will help deal with future snafus that may come up.
tatertot says:
January 14th, 2010 at 6:05 am
well i don’t know what to tell you… i don’t know how can you last like that i mean i understand but is really hard.
nasar5@s says:
January 14th, 2010 at 10:35 am
Ask him. Ask him his beliefs on kissing, sex and PDA. If those are things that you require and he can’t give… then perhaps you might want to rethink this…
kenseave says:
January 14th, 2010 at 5:18 pm
I don’t think he is sending you a sign. Many people who are avidly religious are brought up to feel that sex or even a display of affection is “wrong” or “dirty”. I don’t know if this is the case with him but you have to meet him where he is at. I think ultimately he just has to get comfortable and you have to accept that. Remain patient out of respect for him.
Sincerely,
Ken Seavert
simon y says:
January 14th, 2010 at 10:58 pm
He may be nervous about being more intimate, or there may be other issues he might have. I am not Mormon so I can’t say if it’s religous or not. Talk with him about it, open comunication is the key to any great relationship.
Good Luck!
Kenny Wisdom says:
January 15th, 2010 at 1:01 am
Or, you could just ask him, and not assume that it’s a religious trait. Oh, and no, I don’t identify as Mormon.
BATTLEFE says:
January 15th, 2010 at 2:01 am
Some people arent good at showing affection or dont know how to exactly
Do not listen to this guy above me he is retarded. Im not saying there is anything wrong with dating a BLACK MAN iM JUST SAYING THAT THIS GUY IS RETARDED AND YOU SHOULDNT LISTEN TO ANYTHING HE SAYS.
vinnygri says:
January 15th, 2010 at 2:13 am
You’re right, he is giving you a sign. And the sign says “I dont really like you.” And unless he’s giving you some really passionate hugs (or sex), you need to follow that sign.