How to get a girlfriend

If you’re having a little problem with picking up women, chances are your efforts are not enough. For some, having a lot of guts can really get you started.

Just how do you get yourself those guts? One can learn a few things that can make a whole lot of difference in the quest of being successful with women.

One general rule is that you should never approach a woman without first making eye to eye contact with her. Make sure that the woman you’re eyeing can see you coming towards her so that you don’t take her by surprise.

Look at her eyes when you talk with her. Make sure you also break the gaze from time to time. If you don’t, she might feel uncomfortable and may decide that you are too aggressive for her own good.

A very good way to start a conversation with a girl you are interested in, is by giving a sincere smile and saying “Hi!”–this will surely get her attracted to you. Being a little bit flirty with your gaze will surely get some sparks going on.

When you ask her questions: ask her things that make her expound more about the things you want to know about her. Get her to talk more. Don’t settle for a simple “yes” or “no”–such questions will do you no good.

So when you actually ask–ask about what a perfect life is for her and ask her why. Give her every time to be able to explain her point of view. You should really allow her to tell her piece, otherwise you will miss out on some important information.

Lastly, touching can be an effective tool if used appropriately in the right situation and at the right time. After establishing some degree of connection with her, you can use some strategically employed touches, to heighten her senses and to see how the she would respond.

Here is one way to go about doing it: look at her watch or jewelry and mention that you like it while you also grab her hand or arm in the process. This will make it look as if you have not planned touching her but merely closely looking at her accessories that you appreciated.

These are a few simple ideas, but can be effectively used as a guide to picking up women. If you employ these correctly, I guarantee you that you’ll be off to a good start.

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