What Should I Do??.. Girls Or Guys?… Dating Advice?
okay me and my friends ex were talking late 2 a m (on MSN)… the other night and i asked if she liked anyone…
she said it was obvious she liked me?.. because she flirts with me 24/7… okay w/e she asked if i like her back… or if i jus like to flirt with her… i said i like both
she seemed happy… im on a break from school at the moment (a week off)… and shes at her parents place 2 hours away … but when school starts should i ask her out…
i mean we both like eachother… but… i dunno… advice?
itskayel says:
February 17th, 2010 at 4:29 am
It depends on a lot of things, like how did your friend and her break up? If he still has any feelings for her or they recently broke up, I would back off right away. If not, then talk to your friend and find out what he thinks. But even if he says it’s ok to go for her, double check again before you ask her out.
But if this girl is more important to you than your friendship, then ignore that and go fo her!
Curiusly Interested says:
February 17th, 2010 at 7:49 am
Well, you have to consider a couple of things before you progress -
!) How long was your friend and this person together?
2)How long has it been since they broke up (I’m assuming you mean ex-gf & not wife)?
3)Has your friend moved on to someone else?
If they have been broken up long enough that your friend is over her and has either moved on or is ready to move on to another relationship, then talk to him and let him know that you’re going to ask her out. Then go for it.
If it hasn’t been but a month or so and he’s not over her or not ready to move on, then you need to take into consideration how much his friendship means to you. Then base your decision on what means more to you using that knowledge.
Hope it goes your way and they he’s accepting of your going out with his ex and that you have a great time on your date.
Jess says:
February 17th, 2010 at 11:49 am
Talk to the friend who used to date her. If he’s cool with it, I say why not?