Where Is The Best Dating Advice?
What work in the dating game… how do men really get women?
What do they mean by be confident?
What if you’re not confident but scared to death and every other guy is wating to get what you want or already got…?
what’s the best way to fight insecurities and fear?
I need help!
Confused says:
January 15th, 2010 at 11:54 pm
Start chatting with girls you have no interest in and it gets easier..
Laeticia says:
January 16th, 2010 at 4:14 am
Hands down, the best advice EVER for men who want to learn how to succeed in life and be happy:
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kugay says:
January 16th, 2010 at 8:22 am
I got into some online dating but didn’t last long, i can’t find him there ^,^ most of the guys brain where down there LOL!
i guess i’ll just wait if he comes if not that’s ok too.
Just believe in yourself.
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January 16th, 2010 at 8:46 am
To answer your many questions. Its the confidence in men that gets the girl/woman. If a girl doesn’t wanna talk to you its either because she has an annoying baby daddy living with her, she has a boyfriend, she doesn’t wanna be bothered, has it in her head that men are all the same, or she just got out of a relationship. Confidence is a man’s own personal motivation to getting the girl. It has to be felt within the inside in order for it to be felt on the outside. Woman have to not see confidence but feel it. As a man you have to have the attitude of if a girl turns you down its her loose not yours. Plenty of other females are awaiting your attention why would you stress over that one girl’s attention. As I said earlier the best way to fight insecurities and fear is to trust your confidence and have the attitude that its her lost not yours. Plenty of other females want your attention why sweat her.
BartMan says:
January 16th, 2010 at 9:16 am
Women tend to be attracted to certain personality traits. The problem is, most guys don’t know what those are.
Self-confidence simply means that you like yourself, and you don’t care if other people do not. You realize that you cannot please everyone, and you treat rejection as if it was no big deal.
Acting nervous and awkward around a girl makes her feel the same, and it is unpleasant for everyone. Don’t worry about whether you impress her or not, and just RELAX and have fun. You are more likely to impress her if you are not actually trying to impress her. And if she doesn’t like you, it is no big deal. Some other girl will if you just RELAX and didn’t worry about it so much.
Self-confidence, being funny, being able to maintain good eye contact when speaking (this is a big one), being able to tell entertaining stories (hopefully about your own life experiences), not caring about what other people think of you, being able to blow off rejection like it is no big deal, having your own life & own interests, etc. tend to attract women.
Most guys do the things that repulse women instead: act too nice, too needy, call too much, pay her too much attention, buy her expensive dinners & other things in order to buy her attention, never stand up to her, etc. This being overly “nice” at the beginning of a relationship often feels like manipulation to a woman, and quite frankly, it is. You are trying to “trick” her into liking you because you don’t believe in your heart that anyone could ever like you just for you. Being polite and civil is fine, and I am NOT telling you that it is ever OK to be rude or disrespectful to someone for no reason, BUT don’t treat her any better than you would treat one of your guy friends. Treat her like she is a human being, not like she is a goddess or an angel. Most women seem to resent being put on a pedestal after awhile.
If you want to learn how to be good with women, find out which one of your friends seems naturally good with women, hang out with him, and watch what he does.
And try David D’s free dating advice newsletter. I don’t agree with everything that he says (no one thing works for everyone), but he knows more about women than most other dating experts that I have tried:
Buttered Squash says:
January 16th, 2010 at 12:42 pm
google mimi tanner. she has daily emails and they are all wonderfully expressed.
confidence is knowing yourself, and knowing that you are different and that is perfectly okay.
don’t be scared. you will get hurt. it’s what makes us stronger people.
fight your insecurities by loving yourself for who you are. if you don’t like something, and know you can change it, don’t think about it, do it!
i wish you the best of luck.