Why Is Dating So Hard? Does Anyone Have Any Advice On How To Get Out And Meet People To Date?
I’m a lady that meets guys every so often but they all seem to be either gay or weird. I’m not sure why these are the type of guys that I meet but maybe because I only meet guys online. Any advice or stories that u would like to share with me would be greatly appreciated. Thank you very much!
Matty says:
December 12th, 2009 at 7:50 pm
Rule #1 for meeting people (and forgive me if this seems obvious): get out of the house! You won’t meet anyone if you stay inside or don’t get out into public spaces that have lots of people that you might like to meet, and are conducive to conversation.
Once you get out into the world, practice open body language. Smile and be approachable. No hands crossed over your chest–even if you’re “cold”!
Second of all, if you’re interested in meeting people spend time alone in the venue (especially if you’re at a lounge of some kind). That doesn’t mean you have to go out alone, but it does mean you should take some time off from your table and sit at a bar next to an open seat. You can then approve or deny people as you see fit when they approach you.
It boils down to attitude and approachability. Get out there and have fun!
Good luck!