Okay, so, straight up, I’m a lesbian. I’ve known my whole life, but I’ve never told anyone except my best friend, who is a gay male. And, I guess I’m telling you, whoever reads this…but it’s the internet. So whatever.
I’m just about to graduate high school, I’ve only kissed two guys, and I’ve never been in a real relationship, considering I’m deep in the closet. My friends, on the other hand, have been in many relationships, some ’serious,’ and some just flings. They’ve been there, done it all, etc, etc.
And, whenever I get together with them (they’re all girls, f.y.i.), that’s all they talk about. They constantly ridicule me for never having dated someone. At first it was alright, because they’re my friends, but now it’s getting really insulting and hurtful.
I’m not about to come straight out and tell them *why* I’ve never dated someone, I’ll decide when I’m ready to do that…but I was wondering if anyone here had any tips…like, subject changers or…anything that will work, to get them to stop ridiculing me, but not to tell them straight up that “I’m gay.”
And, if you’re some kind of psychiatric genius, I’d also love some advice as to how to get them to stop saying “that’s so gay,” as frequently as they do, because, it’s…I don’t know, it hurts.
So…thanks in advance for your answers, I guess?

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