Sunday, 28 February, 2010
My girlfriend loves getting tattoos. Whenever she has enough money she gets one. Her parents don’t like them at all and get wicked pissed when she gets them. She just got done with her first semester at college and did bad (0.5 GPA), and still hasn’t told her parents. I know they’re going to freak because her family is really into academics (fathers a professor at an ivy league school, brother graduated from one of the best universities in the world).
I’m fine with her getting tattoos, and told her I’d go with her when she got it. I just don’t think now is the right time. If she waited until she got on better terms with her parents I think it would be a better. She already made an appointment but it’s not for week. Is there anyway I could get her to hold off on getting her tattoo for a little longer?
Also, she’s getting a half sleeve but all the good artists at the shop were book for a couple of months, so isn’t even getting it from a well experienced artist.

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Monday, 15 February, 2010
Ok, so a little background story of me.
I’m a 14 year old teen. I live in a fairly homophobic European country, but I’m only half European. I was mostly raised in American schools and stuff. I come from a middle to upper class social level. I was 100% sure about 1 year ago that I was gay, but I felt totally alone. So I came out to my old best friend about 6 months ago (we aren’t so close anymore because I started avoiding her cause of her drug problems). So apart from her, I haven’t told anyone else that I’m gay. Many of my friends suspect of course, and even asked me several times, but whenever the topic comes up, I simply from reflex say no. I wanted to come out to everybody but I am scared at what their reaction might be. My mom would cry, but eventually awknowledge that I can’t help being who I am (I overheard my dad and mom discuss it and she said it’s not a choice, but people are just born that way, and my dad said he thinks it’s a choice). My dad would shout and make me feel embarrassed of who I am and would probably ground me untill I “become straight”. My brother would totally accept me. And my friends would be sad (especially the girl ones, cause that means they don’t have a chance with me), but they would love me I think. And the other people…well lets just say they will hate me and call me a ******. So I sometimes have these moments when I want to come out to the whole world, but then I cower up, and I don’t know what to do. I really need some advice on what to do. And I’ve also been so lonely. My brother has his girlfriend, all my friends are hooking up with each other, but not just that, I need a gay guy to just know I’m not alone. There’s like no gay guys here that are out. And I just need ways to find some gay guys..but I think I need to come out and they will start coming towards me. I have had some people add me on msn cause I asked for 14-16 year olds to add me on msn and they all end up to be some 14 year old obese grosse guys who want nothing else but webcam sex. Seriously -.-.
Any tips? And there’s no GSA at my school or anything…it’s a pretty homophobic environment. Any questions or extra details that you need added just ask me.
Thanks!

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Friday, 4 December, 2009
I really want to do a threesome sex involving another man, my girlfriend, and I. But the problem is that my girlfriend doesn’t want to do it. How should I convince her that it’s not as bad as she thinks?
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