umm dude, they’re all crazy
Well last year my crush gave me a really long hug and everytime i look at him, he is staring straight at me! Recently i got his email and last night we were talking for four hours straight. He even asked me to buy him stuff for the shops. so we were talking for ages and told each other how far we’ve been. Now i’ve run out of things to ask, any suggestions???
It’s been over a month and a half since me and my friend have started going out and we both want to tell our parents but don’t know how. My parents know I’m bi-sexual and know I’ve dated girls before but since she was my best friend for so long I’m unsure how I should tell my parents that me and her are dating. Any advice?
An amazing girl asked me out: she’s gorgeous, sweet and caring, very smart, and we have a lot in common. The two of us are very compatible and have really nice conversations together. I made her laugh and smile a lot on our coffee date, and she gave me butterflies in my heart. At the end, she gave me a tight hug, told me to e-mail her, and told me she’d see me soon.
She told me she had a nice time with me the next morning. I asked her out for a second date (through e-mail; we met on match.com), but I heard nothing in a month. I found out one of her parents is very ill, she has financial difficulties, and she’s very busy with grad school. She’s probably stressed, sad, and overwhelmed, and now is doubtfully a good time for dating with everything that has happened.
What do I do? I don’t want to forget about her and move on because I felt we connected pretty strongly; girls like her are rare and hard to come by, and I really liked our connection.
At the same time, the more time that passes without us communicating, the more the bond and connection between us weakens.
She never told me about any of this; I found out because we’re grad students (different programs, same university) and overheard two of her friends talking. She hasn’t replied to my two e-mails; one asking her out right after our date, and one two weeks later just making casual talk and asking how things are going.
Do I wait for her to contact me, try to make small talk again in a month, let her go entirely…?