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Dating ID And The Love Predators

Monday, 6 September, 2010

Many of us may think we are too smart to be conned. This is what the Love Predator counts on–an element of denial working in you while they work their magic on you. As the saying goes, “Love is blind,” and while your intentions provide giving and receiving; theirs derive from taking whatever they can, and then leaving you. Con Artists and the love predators, go straight for your “love is blind spot.”

In my blind spot, an adept con artist came along who courted and married me with the intent to take my home, business, money, credit, and identity. And although these cases are increasingly commonplace, it’s unlikely to happen to you. However, in this era of easy anonymity, any one of us can be taken in by a love interest hiding behind a false identity; what I call a Love Predator.

With identity theft and Internet fraud, a new crime wave has emerged. It now extends to a person’s love life. Since these fraudulent activities involve matters of the heart, they are classified as civil, and allow love predators to easily escape criminal prosecution. In fact, due to anonymity factor, the true identity of a perpetrator may never be known. The damage to our culture grows daily and requires a pro-active approach.

On searching for love, risks and dangers may include a betrayed heart, abandonment disorder, loss of self-esteem, trust, and time; in addition to damage to your psyche, making it more complex to attract the woman of your dreams. Use wisdom while looking for romance and dating success today. And use Dating ID.

What exactly dating ID? Entry to the online social networking environment requires a PC, but no identification. Dating ID or Dating Identification is a new system to determine a person’s identity so as to support a truthful dating environment.

And because of easy anonymity, the entire dating landscape has changed. Matchmaking services, online dating services, and relationship coaches advocate background searches for their clients and members to guard against romance scams. Dating ID is not a background search. Rather, it is really an identity certification issued to individuals who deliberately apply for it.

With the acceptance and popularity of online dating, the quantity of people who use false photographs, wrong marital status, and false profiles is steadily rising. Marcus Friend, founder of plentyoffish.com said both males and females are equally guilty in terms of fudging profiles. “With women, it’s weight; for men, it’s height. An unauthorized (giving an assessment) is the easiest way to go.” Other dating sites such as True.com and E-Harmony have followed suit providing identity verification for online dating service members. The fraud can range from fudging to gross misrepresentations of identity factors, with intent for personal gain.

I have developed the Dating ID concept within the last few years in answer to my con artist husband. Instead of getting bitter, I got better and filed a patent for DATING ID with America Trademark and Patent Office. I also share the true story, “Oops, I Married a Con Artist,” about my marriage to a man impersonating an Air Force Pilot during the 911 era in hopes that others will step up and confront this growing crime wave in a proactive manner.

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I Need Help with a Girl

Monday, 9 November, 2009

I just dont know what to do. There is this new girl in my grade and I just dont know how to keep a conversation going or how too start one because I dont want to come off as a creeper. I have talked too her enough too know the basics, like where she is from, why she moved, etc. But what I dont know if she is interested in me or if I have already entered the “Friend Zone.”

Plz Help

Just ask her.  There is a good chance that if it isn’t obvious that she is not into you but if she looks at you a lot and tries to find a way to talk to you that you are in good shape.  Just say something along the lines of “I know this sounds weird but what do you think of me?” Give her time to answer and see how she responds. Then ask her so “do you find me attractive in a I could date this guy way or not so much.” Again give her time to answer. If you’re already in the friend zone it can be very hard to get out of that place. You could just tell her “you know what I am attracted to you and I appreciate your friendship but my feelings for you right now are more than that and unless you feel the same way I think we should probably not hang out so much.”

I know it is tough to push away people that we like but doing such a thing will put it in her head that she might be losing something dear to her and maybe she will rethink how she feels about you.  One thing all us unfortunately want is to win every game we play.  If something just became unattainable to us we have a tendency to fixate on it and want it back at any cost.

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