How to get a girlfriend

I was against this idea for a very long time until I met him. I realized that he’s a real nice, sincere and genuine guy. His ex cheated on him and he has a 3 yr old daughter with her whom he hardly see. We’ve known each other for almost a year now. I learned a lot of life lessons since I’ve known him. I also had a glimpse into his soul and have this deep knowing that he is the one.
For those who has or is dating someone going through a divorce, what are your challenges? If you could do it all over again, would you date someone who is going through a divorce? What very important lessons have you learned and how has it transformed your life? What helpful advice would you share to those who are new in dating someone who is divorced/going through a divorce?
Do men going through a divorce eventually starts believing in serious relationships and a second chance for a happy marriage again eventually? What advice could you share. Thanks.

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So, I am usually the one that is picky when it comes to dating, responsible, and doesn’t date guys with alot of baggage. Something was different with this guy. He is currently going through a divorce, for a marriage that he never really wanted. He found out in December that she was cheating on him, and knew for quite a while before that that things were over. So, we started dating and taking it very slow. But, over the last couple of weeks, we have gotten quite close, and I have let down my guard quite a bit. So, last week, we decided that he needs to take a few weeks (up to a month) to really get rid of alot of this baggage, get separate accounts and such, and divide assets. He promised me that he really cares about me and really wants to be with me. And that he will come back to me soon! I do feel like he is worth the wait, and all of this chaos, but I keep hearing all of these horror stories, and could sure use some sound advice. My heart is on the line….

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I really need help with this whole dating thing.
I’ve never done anything, and he’s done like everything. I’ve had this crush on this guy forever it seems. now randomly we started hanging out n he asked me out. i find myself wanting to avoid him.. when ever i talk to him i feel like i say or do something wrong. when he touches my neck or shoulders, or if he slips his hands around my waist i cringe.. lol, does this make any sense?! I’ve never had a boyfriend.. never wanted to, but since i liked him so much before.. i said yes.
I know i like him, i’m just not used to any of this. i’m used to having guy friends n i dont know how i should act when i’m with him..? i tried to tell him to cut me some slack cuz i’m new to this, n he said he knew i was and that he was trying to take things extra slow so that i would trust him.. but.. this is wierd.. but i got this really creepy feeling when he was telling me this. it’s like, what do u expect me to do with u once i trust u..? i dont know how to explain it…
the whole school knows we’re dating n they think it’s so random since we’re complete opposites. they call him our school’s biggest womanizer..lol, and i’m kinda like a virgin saint, haha. i just feel bad it he’s expecting something more from me, b/c i wont do stuff..
i just need some over all advice.
People come up to me and tell me he seems serious about dating.. i dk, i still dont know how i feel about it. We dont even know each other that well. he wants to hang out all the time, but my parents are really strict.. anyway,
How can i make this all work out? what should i watch out for?
thanks so much for the help! srry if it’s messed up..

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Well first, I notice many people stating that you learn from personal experience, but you are talking about someone that is presently in a bad relationship, so learning from retrospect really isn’t possible at this early time.
It is easier to observe others from outside the relationship and be able to see the problems they might be experiencing. Giving advice to others may also be a way of helping ones self. Thinking outloud and helping others may eventually help the one giving the advice to examine their own relationship problems.
The person giving the advice is emotionally attached to their partner and there is a lot of emotional baggage to consider. When they give advice, they are looking at the outside parties with no personal involvment, so it is easier to just state facts of what they should do. Usually the recieving party doesn’t follow the advice anyway, because they have emotional attachments themselves.
If you are either the giving or recieving party in this situation, take this time to really think about your relationship, and get out of it if it is bad!
To the guy who’s girlfriend left after 9 years. Don’t try to judge every situation on yours, and just hand out advice based on your ex’s actions. If she left you after 9 years, it wasn’t just the advice of someone else. She must’ve not been satisfied in your relationship anymore. Move on and find someone that really cares about you. Oh yeah, and maybe marry the woman before nine years passes.

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I start high school in a week…i appriciate ur answeres thnxs.

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I know this guy from two years ago whom really wanted to go out with me but I was in a relationship so I turned him down..I saw him again after these two years and we are both single so we have been seeing each other. He says he likes me but wants to get to know each other to see where things end up, that he wants to have fun and if it doesnt work he will let me know. He introduces me to everyone as his friend he is getting to know (???) yet his friends call me his girlfriend. Anyhow, Im kinda skeptical about dating other people to keep my options open because I do like him but all my friends think I should meet others as well. I do get invited out by other guys but I guess I”m afraid if I do that he will get upset. Any advice would be appreciated???

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Hello all,
Im a guy and im going speed dating tomorrow night for the first time - and hopefully the last. Im kinda scared to be honest! The age range is pretty large 23-38………
Is there any advice that you guys can give?
At least i know that all the ladies there will be single!

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