Wow what a crazy weekend. Its funny that I really am an expert at how to get a girfriend, yet I make mistakes all the time, especially when I really like someone. I am kinda in a stage in my life where I want to move to the next stage in a relationship. I have dated a ton of girls and mastered how to ask a girl out and have gotten a ton of action. But now I am in the stage where I want to find her. The one for me. The one I can spend the rest of my life with. I have actually been meeting some really cool girls and there is a couple of them that I think could be the one. The funny thing is that I am like I am totally going to be my self and not listen to what my brain says and just go off of gut instinct because if she is really the one then there won’t be a problem. I have to tell you so far my gut F’n sucks. It really annoys me because like everyone else I hate playing the “game” but the fact of the matter is there is absolutely no way around it. Because if you want to talk to a girl and she hasn’t called you back you HAVE to wait otherwise you will come off too needy. Thats just a fact. I am well aware of all the rules but thought perhaps because I really liked this girl and she liked me that all the rules were off. I was wrong. Its tough because even though she thinks she is not playing games and doesn’t want to, the meer fact that she doesn’t return my call in a timely fashion sets off a trigger in my brain that I haven’t talked to her in a while and I want to talk to her. Now the smarter me knows I need to let it be its no big deal and she will call when she has time. The guy that likes this girl and wants to constently see and talk to her has anxiety and wants to hear her voice. Its kinda funny I have become the turd that never sabatoges relationships.
The point of this message is regardless of how good you think you are at asking a girl out or knowing how to get a girlfriend, you must always remember the fundamentals. Don’t think you are better than the system. As annoying as it is to look at a relationship like that if you don’t you really are setting yourself up for failure.
