There was a fight.
Maybe you lied to your boyfriend.
Maybe you had a kicking, gouging, scratching, big-screen-TV-throwing fight.
Maybe you were unfaithful. Maybe he was unfaithful.
It doesn’t matter why he left, you want him to come back to you… and nothing’s gonna stop you from getting him back… NOW!
But can you really win him back?
Men have fragile egos.
Can you really get him back?
Absolutely! Just follow these steps.
Forget Your Ego
If you really want your boyfriend back, forget all about your precious ego.
Men and little boys have a lot in common.
Make him look or feel small– like he’s nothing special, and you don’t care what he thinks–and he’s gone… for good.
Lots of women break this rule.
They snicker at his injured pride.
Tell him he’s being hysterical. He’s stupid to take offense. He’s just like a big baby.
They ridicule and mock and laugh… and look after their own egos.
What does that get them? Not much. They rarely win their boyfriends back.
They haven’t treated him with respect… so–if he’s a self-respecting man–why would he ever go back to that terrible situation.
And what self-respecting woman would ever want a wimp who’d take that sort of abuse?
If you really want him back… you’ll need to work at it… do some things that feel uncomfortable… because that’s the sort of commitment you need to get an ex boyfriend back… especially if you hurt his pride.
Apologize
Next, tell him you’re sorry.
Even if you’re convinced it’s all his fault… just do it.
Apologize. That calms a tense situation, and repairs his injured pride.
A few women won’t do this.
They stick to their principles.
They’d rather roll naked in cactus than admit they’re wrong.
Those women save their pride… but that’s not much consolation when they’re all alone.
Which do you think is more important? Your pride… or your boyfriend?
If your boyfriend’s more important… then forget your pride… and apologize ASAP.
Forgive
Often you need to forgive and forget things he did.
In the heat of a relationship battle, we all say and do terrible things we don’t really mean.
And if we dwell on those hurtful words, the relationship is doomed.
So, you’d better forgive him. And forget all that terrible stuff you both said and did in the bad old days.
The past is gone. Don’t let it ruin your future. Getting back with your ex boyfriend is tough. But if you obsess about things he said and did in the bad old days, you’ve got no chance.
Expect Rejection
Getting back together with your ex boyfriend is rarely easy… and it’s almost never direct.
Usually, you must take a step forward and two steps back.
That’s OK. That’s perfectly normal. Some men take time to get over hurt feelings.
So accept that as part of the recovery process.
Don’t over-react. Just make him feel like the most special man in the world… make him feel wonderful when he’s with you… and you’ll soon get him back in your arms… where he belongs.
