How to get a girlfriend

I am in college and hang out with a grope of people. I think that the one likes me but I am not sure. all last week since we have been back from break he has been all over me. touching me, feeling me, looking at me, and stuff like that. However he has yet to ask me out? I am old fashion, because I feel the guy need to do the asking. However he has yet to ask me out. I really like him and want to try dating him. What should I do about this? Do you think he likes me? Should I ask him out? We are friends now I don’t want that to ned. I need help?

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Ok i’ll try and make this simple as possible.
This guy and i fell in love. I was dating someone else, broke up with him to be with this guy. Things were going good, told him i wasn’t ready yet to have a committment. time went on, and on and on, and i was ready. Now HE doesn’t want a committment right now and said he can’t give me an answer why cause he doesn’t even know. he said he does love me. It’s not one of those one way things he calls me, takes me out to dinner, i go over there, he comes here, etc. very two way.
ANYWAYS… last night we had a major falling out. I had had a long day at school and he let me know because of a family emergency he wouldn’t be able to come up to visit (i live about an hour away). So he was in a bad mood, i was in a bad mood. Anyway, i found out he dropped his brother off (who lives five min away from me) and asked why he couldn’t stop by for five minutes, and that it makes me really mad when he does that.

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ok… i guess i should start by explaining the situation
ive been best friends with this girl for about 4 years
we now started dating
now i need to know how to kiss her
shes one of my first gf’s n i wanna make it rite
we’re goin to the movies in a few days and i wanna kiss her than
maybe even sooner
she’s more experienced than me and i wanna kno how can i kiss her romantically??
i want to use tongue but ive never done that b4 and is it rite for a second date???
so i jus need some tips on how to kiss her, where to put my hands [heard that thats important, i was thinking one on the hip n one on her cheek, or side], for how long, what to do with my tongue [if it goes that far] and how to not make it so OBVIOUS i havent done that b4
in other words
how to make it enjoyable to her and not enduring????
plz answer most of these questions =]

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There has been a client who comes into my work about two times a week for the past few years, we’ve always flirted but nothing really more than that has happened. i think that i have restrained myself due to the fact that i don’t want to make either of us uncomfortable if things aren’t reciprocated. it would be weird seeing each other so often if one of us rejected the other. about two months ago he asked me to see his friends band play (there are 13 girls at my work, and he only invited me) he didn’t actually ask to take me there, as he was kind of working with the band- i was too big of a wuss to attend alone so i brought two of my co-workers with me. things seemed to go pretty well, he spent time with me when he had chances, bought me drinks, tried to get me to go to the after party (which i had to decline), and hugged me goodbye. he hasn’t asked me anywhere since then. we still flirt as much as before, and everyone else at work can’t figure out why we haven’t tried dating yet… since it’s “obvious” we’re into each other.
so my question is this- would it be improper for me to ask him to go out? how could i bring it up? i’m usually very confident… but i’m afraid to be rejected by a person i will have to see every week. if he was a random guy i’d just met i’d have no problem. should i just wait and make him do the asking… i just think this is a really great guy and don’t want to miss out on the opportunity by not taking a chance. maybe i sent the wrong message by bringing friends to the concert?
any ideas?

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love-shy - this essentially describes my current situation with women. At age 30 and despite many professional successes and being told I’m a very nice and caring person by many people, I have never had a g/f or been in a relationship (ever).
To try to fix the relationship situation, and b/c repeated efforts at online dating just didn’t work for me, I signed up for a local brick-and-mortar matchmaking service that tries to match people looking for serious and long-term relationships, with the ultimate goal of matching people with persons that would make good potential partners for an eventual married relationship. Criteria used to match are based on compatibility, numerous scientific personality assessments, and other character assessments. I am guaranteed nearly 30 unique matches for potential dates, which the agency coordinates.
So the first match arrived by postal mail today, with the a summary of the match’s interests, profile, and phone number included. To set up the actual date, I have to call the match to ask her out and take it from there to see how things go. However, given the approach being used and my inexperience with relationships, what would you recommend actually talking about with the match on the first phone call? Also any recommendations on what would be a good first date idea? Thanks!

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Ok, so I just got out of my most serious relationship (ever) with my Best Guy Friend, who I am still good friends with. Anyways, ever since we broke up, I’ve been so lonely and I just cannot seem to move on. However, I really want to move on! All my friends seem to find guys really easily, but somehow I dont (I’ve always been a little shy around new people). I really want to get a new boyfriend. I think it would be good for me and help me move on, and besides, I want a boyfriend and detest being single. Any advice for finding a boyfriend? Should I just get one of my friends to hook me up with someone?
Thanks!
Cay

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So here’s my situation. In high school I was pretty big (and by big I mean fat). Well, I went to a high school where looks were everything and thus I was sort of an outcast. So with this in mind, I never really had any friends and kept to myself a lot and, well, essentially became what would be considered a social awkward and a lone wolf. So now to the present, I’m currently in an top-tier school in the northeast (not being very social I kept up good grades) and lost quite a bit of weight (though I’m still on the bigger side, but happy nonetheless). I have friends (that’s a surprise) but none of them I’m really close too. it’s more along the line I’m highly respected by my peers. But I still maintain that socially awkward and lonewolf status and am usually by myself in the library and keeping to myself. Well, anyways there’s this girl, she’s a freshman and myself a sophmore, whom I always see. I mean we live in the same dorm building, part of a religious prayer group together, both attend the same general music recitals, convocations, etc., and she’s always in the library. I kind of fell in love the first at first sight at the beginning of the year and that feeling really hasn’t quavered. But I never approached her and always admired her from afar, despite us always seeing each other. Well, in the second term of the second semester, she actually introduced herself to me (something of which I did not expect) and now we’re acquainted. She’s always generally happy to see me, always smiling, waving, or acknowledging me when I see her. But me being the way I am, she always says “hi” and I reply “hi” back and that’s about it. I can never carry on a conversation. Now I’m afraid she’s losing interest or I’m too late because of my social awkwardness. I’d really like to get to know her better as I’m assuming we have a lot in common. But I honestly am scared to approach her as I consider herself out of my league with he thought of mind that I’m big and ugly because of my high school life. She’s also a bit more popular with me and I don’t really like acknowledging her when she’s in a group as I don’t know the people and afraid they’ll make fun of her for knowing me. And because I see her so often, I’ll often ignore her because I see her so much and don’t want he to think I’m stalking her and also because I don’t know what to say and choke up and m voice usually goes high pitched. Finals are the week after next and I’m afraid I’ll never see her again next year, or not as often. So yeah, any advice would be greatly appreciated on what I should do to get to know her better or how to ask her out (if that’d be even an ok option).

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ok, so i really like my friend
well call him billy.
so i realy like, obvi i kno he likes me back
so i was gonna ask him out today but he was being a realjerk to me yesterday so i sed **** it. but thn today he was all like “im really sorry…” and blah blah blah etc.
so i really want to ask him out, but i dont were to ask him to?
or how to ask him
or well…EVERYTHING!
i also dont know if i should just forget about it too, i like him, he likes me, but it might be a little awkward if we started dating…idk
plzzz help
thanxz to all!
merry X-mas, brianna

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Alright, I’m going out with this girl. She’s got all the qualities that any guy would want in someone. She’s got a great career, intelligent, graduated from a good school, outgoing, and attractive. The only problem is…..I CAN’T SEEM TO FIGURE HER OUT!!
In a nutshell she’s beautiful to look at, fascinating in some ways, but puzzling. I tend to be more confused each time we go out (then again, a lot of things confuse me). She’ll be chatty on the phone then hardly give a word in person. She’ll say we should get together then seem indifferent when you do. Maybe it’s b/c she gets a lot of attention from men so she doesn’t have to try, maybe she’s indecisive, or maybe she’s just playing me.
Can somebody tell me if this girl is worth dating? I’m too confused over her!

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So, I’ve been dating this girl for about a month and a half. I was just getting over someone when I met her so I have not been emotionally present the entire time — something I’ve felt bad about but after getting hurt by the previous girl, I was in self-protection mode. Recently, the girl I’m dating and I had a talk about where we stood and she said she feels as though there is no “energy” in our dating relationship but that she is attracted to me on another level. That said, she initially thought it would be best if we stopped seeing each other romantically but that we should still see each other as friends. I said, I did not think it would be possible to be friends because although I really do like her as a person, I want to still date her. Further, in the past few weeks, I actually started to like this girl and get over my hurt feelings from the prior relationship so I know I can be emotionally present if we were to continue dating.
The girl said she is now more confused and needs time to think it all though. I support her doing so.
My question for you, is do you think there is a chance for us to continue dating and, if I’m more emotionally “there” this time, do you think that the “energy” that has been missing will come back?
I think this girl is really great and I’d hate to lose her because I was just going through the motions for most of our short romance. Basically, the ball is in her court while she figures out whether she still wants to date. What do you think?

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