The first step is confidence! You MUST get that confidence up! No if ands or buts cause a broad can smell a pussy from a mile away and if she thinks you don’t believe in yourself she will never give you the time of day to prove otherwise. How do you get confidence? Well, if you have been listening to me and you understand AND BELIEVE that we all want to be happy and loved and we all have self doubt issues then you should take comfort that you are not alone and perhaps it is easier to get what you want because every girl out there wants the same thing!
The other thing is to create this new persona. This person who is confident and knows they are the best at whatever they do. Even if you don’t believe it you MUST look in the mirror every morning and tell yourself how good looking you are. You MUST tell yourself that you are the best at all that you do. Eventually you will get to the point where you believe it. It might be awkward at first and you might lose some friends from it but F them. You will find new friends who like you and are like the new and improved you. Plus the odds are your old friends are negative people and don’t get girls. Remember there is a reason why girls want confident guys. Because confident guys are happy, they smile, they tell happy successful stories, they enjoy life. They have happy positive energy. No one wants to be around a sad life sucking force. If that is you; reprogram yourself NOW by doing the steps above.
I will leave you with this story about my life. I was in college and me and all my friends but one was dating girls. My good friend who was short, fat, hairy, negative and an UBER nerd was really down that he was the only one that wasn’t dating anyone and that he was going to be single for the rest of his life. 
Funny looking back at this thing that happened 10 years ago, how serious he was, man I miss that guy. 
In fact he was soo serious I would say he was borderline suicidal. I gave him the same advice I just gave you guys to “look in the mirror and tell yourself you are the best looking guy you ever saw. Even if you don’t believe it at first I want you to promise me you will do this every day at least twice a day. At the very least when you wake up and before you go to bed and try to believe it. Pertend you are an actor playing a character and this is what that character really truly believes. On top of that I want to you think you are the best at everything you do. That girls would be lucky to have a guy like you and that you could have any chick you want. That every guy wants to be like you and if you decide so you might just let them be your friend.” He retorted” but there is no…” cutting him of I interjected, “lets just say this is an experiment and see what happens. You promise?”
Sure enough he promises and what transpired was really truly the most amazing thing I have ever seen. He went from this pussy loser to this ugly guy who thought he was the shit. It was the weirdest and most awkward thing in the world but he really did a 180. He even earned the nickname “attitude man” cause no one knew, other than myself, why suddenly he was acting this way. It was weird and it took a long time for people to know him to adjust to this new dorky kid who thought he was the shit. I gotta tell you when I say it was odd I promise it was freaking odd. But the people that never met him before saw this beaming confident guy. At first you could tell he didn’t really believe the shit that he was saying but the good sport followed through with it even after being called names about his new attitude. It got to the point where he really believed in himself, and even if I must say it was kinda annoying at times, especially when he would give me attitude, I could see he was much happier. Girls could too! In fact shortly after this transformation he did what I said and started hitting on girls and asking them out. Now while his track record wasn’t brilliant, after a while, getting rejected starts to be fun, like a game. The fear of it, which by the way is far worse than actually getting rejected, is gone because you are doing it so often and you realize no one cares. Also you know you are one less NO away from a yes. How great is life when you start looking at it like that?
I would say within 6 months of this new monster that I created he asks a girl out and they start dating. He has a girlfriend. His first real girlfriend! They end up dating for years and end up getting married. They are still together today and have a wonderful family. So stop being a NEGATIVE pussy and start thinking you’re the shit. Eventually you will believe it and then your world will never be the same.
