How to get a girlfriend

“If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it doesn’t, then it was never meant to be.”
Would you let go, would you fight for it, or would the person you love wouldn’t leave you in the first place? Or what would you do?
Me i choose fight, because nothing has ever come back to me it all has gone away and vanish in the dark, including life and love.
I cant find a girlfriend, i let the girl see if she loved me back she would be with me and i wouldnt fight to get her cuz i thought girls would make the right choice but they choose a**holes over me. and where i live there are only few girls that i would ever date; straight only, smart, nice, pretty, beautiful, caring, christian, wait til marriage to have sex, virgin girls that are loyal and wil never cheat and sadly their is only about 10,000 out of all the women in the world, 4,000,000,000, that actually truly will have these. a lot say they will remain loyal but then leave you for a better looking guy instead of staying and seeing if we can be. Im 18 and live in the 4th smallest city, Irvine, and go to Woodbridge Highschool. i play football and wrestling and finally had it and no longer will go dances til i have a girl to go with so until i have my first girlfriend im not going to any more dance, i turned down my guy friends that invited me to the Winter Formal cuz i am the only guy that wont have a girl so im not going. Why is it that even though there is 1 guy for 3 girls i still cant find one, is it how i look, this is mehttp://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fus… I only know one girl left at my school that actually is the right type of girl that fights my type of girl, her name is Jessica. She is the biggest sweetheart girl, she like my angel always there for me except last year she went to a dance with a junior football player when she and i are only sophomores. she choose him over me, and got her heart broken by him to. she dyed her her blond for dance for the junior but her original hair color is brunette which she got it changed back to. This is her (the one on the right thats taller and has sun glasses on), http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fus… Is she beautiful? She is the only girl left that is my type. Also is like the only friend I have left after i found out about what alot of my use-to-be-friends did that i disliked them for. Im hoping the next dance that i might get her to go with me cuz she is REALLY the only one left. What do you think? Could i get her to be my first girlfriend? i love her and she really cares about me but im just not sure if she is going want to go with me. i have been turned down so many times i have lost lots of confidence. they say be ready for rejection from some but how are you ready for every girl to say no? I have never had a girlfriend so tell me what do i need to do? any advise with dating? after being turned down so many times im afraid ill end up like the forty year old virgin. i dont want that to happen. Anything i need to know about girlfriends, relationships, dating. Im tired of being alone and have pretty much no life always football/wrestling and school grades that i have never had time so i quit sports and cooling on school so i can get one so i can treat a woman nice and respectful and show that im loving and caring. and im not looking for a one night stand, im not like other people that think its a game and that they need to lose their virginity as soon as possible that they would do it with their friends. im waiting and i hope that if she will be my girlfriend that we will have a great relationship? Anything i need to know?

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Ok i told this girl that i would really like to buy her lunch or breakfast or something and she works with me in a different deparment though and I gave her my number to call me if she has any time off. now i went into the store to talk to her today and every single time i even got close to the counter she like walked away i think she was avoiding me or something what did i do wrong?

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I am starting to think about the possiblity of making myself available to date. I am 22 years old and I’ve never even been asked out on a date - so my experience is non-existant. I am a little cautious about dating because I don’t want to make any big mistakes resulting in cynicism from a broken heart and other casualties of the dating game (war, in some people’s books). Now, while I’ve been thinking about it, I’ve gone to several friends and family members to ask their opinion and to share their stories with me, so I can have an idea on how this could pan out - you know, those “if I knew then what I know now” stories. They’ve been really helpful.
One thing I have been getting consistently is just not to do it. Now, everyone has given me great reasons, but I find it hard to believe that relationships are all THAT bad, especially since the people who are telling me not to date ARE ALL IN A RELATIONSHIP! One of my friends even told me that she couldn’t stand her serious relationship, broke up with her boyfriend (swearing him off) and now, they’re back together. (Mind you, this is all in a month’s time.)
So, will someone tell me, if everyone wishes so much to NOT be in a relationship, and are telling me that it’s not worth the trouble, why don’t they just leave their guy and be free of the woes of a relationship? Or IS it worth it? If so, why are they telling me it’s not?
FYI - I’ve come right out and asked one of my closer friends and she just couldn’t tell me. As a matter of fact, she started talking about all of the great qualities of her husband!

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Ok, so a little background story of me.
I’m a 14 year old teen. I live in a fairly homophobic European country, but I’m only half European. I was mostly raised in American schools and stuff. I come from a middle to upper class social level. I was 100% sure about 1 year ago that I was gay, but I felt totally alone. So I came out to my old best friend about 6 months ago (we aren’t so close anymore because I started avoiding her cause of her drug problems). So apart from her, I haven’t told anyone else that I’m gay. Many of my friends suspect of course, and even asked me several times, but whenever the topic comes up, I simply from reflex say no. I wanted to come out to everybody but I am scared at what their reaction might be. My mom would cry, but eventually awknowledge that I can’t help being who I am (I overheard my dad and mom discuss it and she said it’s not a choice, but people are just born that way, and my dad said he thinks it’s a choice). My dad would shout and make me feel embarrassed of who I am and would probably ground me untill I “become straight”. My brother would totally accept me. And my friends would be sad (especially the girl ones, cause that means they don’t have a chance with me), but they would love me I think. And the other people…well lets just say they will hate me and call me a ******. So I sometimes have these moments when I want to come out to the whole world, but then I cower up, and I don’t know what to do. I really need some advice on what to do. And I’ve also been so lonely. My brother has his girlfriend, all my friends are hooking up with each other, but not just that, I need a gay guy to just know I’m not alone. There’s like no gay guys here that are out. And I just need ways to find some gay guys..but I think I need to come out and they will start coming towards me. I have had some people add me on msn cause I asked for 14-16 year olds to add me on msn and they all end up to be some 14 year old obese grosse guys who want nothing else but webcam sex. Seriously -.-.
Any tips? And there’s no GSA at my school or anything…it’s a pretty homophobic environment. Any questions or extra details that you need added just ask me.
Thanks!

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I am starting to think about the possiblity of making myself available to date. I am 22 years old and I’ve never even been asked out on a date - so my experience is non-existant. I am a little cautious about dating because I don’t want to make any big mistakes resulting in cynicism from a broken heart and other casualties of the dating game (war, in some people’s books). Now, while I’ve been thinking about it, I’ve gone to several friends and family members to ask their opinion and to share their stories with me, so I can have an idea on how this could pan out - you know, those “if I knew then what I know now” stories. They’ve been really helpful.
One thing I have been getting consistently is just not to do it. Now, everyone has given me great reasons, but I find it hard to believe that relationships are all THAT bad, especially since the people who are telling me not to date ARE ALL IN A RELATIONSHIP! One of my friends even told me that she couldn’t stand her serious relationship, broke up with her boyfriend (swearing him off) and now, they’re back together. (Mind you, this is all in a month’s time.)
So, will someone tell me, if everyone wishes so much to NOT be in a relationship, and are telling me that it’s not worth the trouble, why don’t they just leave their guy and be free of the woes of a relationship? Or IS it worth it? If so, why are they telling me it’s not?
FYI - I’ve come right out and asked one of my closer friends and she just couldn’t tell me. As a matter of fact, she started talking about all of the great qualities of her husband!

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Hi,
I have really liked a girl for about one year now. We both go to the same high school. I sit right next to her (I am 1st chair and she is 2nd) in band and we both play the alto sax. Last year in middle school, (long story short) she found out that I liked her by my friend (who I told first) telling someone and that someone telling another who told another and so on. After she found out, we have not spoken to each other as often as we did. I don’t know if it was just me but it seemed like we would just ignore each other when we past by each other or were around each other. So now I sit next to her so I kinda talk to her or she talks to me but she is not the same around me as she is around other guys. So time passed and no one has mentioned anything about the subject ever since. Almost every day I sit next to her, she starts to play with her hair and if I unhook my neck strap from my sax, she will most of the time do it too. I wanted some advice so I will not ask her out (even though I am really shy and will be hard to do) and have to deal with the whole thing all over again if she says no. I really really like her. I can’t stop thinking about her. She is my first thought when I wake up and my last thought when I go to sleep. Even if I’m distracted by something she just pops into my head.
Thanks for any advice
P.S. Any advice that may help just be frineds with her again will also help.

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When did Yahoo Answers become a dating advice forum?

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I ain’t got time to read a 5000 word question

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