How to get a girlfriend

“If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it doesn’t, then it was never meant to be.”
Would you let go, would you fight for it, or would the person you love wouldn’t leave you in the first place? Or what would you do?
Me i choose fight, because nothing has ever come back to me it all has gone away and vanish in the dark, including life and love.
I cant find a girlfriend, i let the girl see if she loved me back she would be with me and i wouldnt fight to get her cuz i thought girls would make the right choice but they choose a**holes over me. and where i live there are only few girls that i would ever date; straight only, smart, nice, pretty, beautiful, caring, christian, wait til marriage to have sex, virgin girls that are loyal and wil never cheat and sadly their is only about 10,000 out of all the women in the world, 4,000,000,000, that actually truly will have these. a lot say they will remain loyal but then leave you for a better looking guy instead of staying and seeing if we can be. Im 18 and live in the 4th smallest city, Irvine, and go to Woodbridge Highschool. i play football and wrestling and finally had it and no longer will go dances til i have a girl to go with so until i have my first girlfriend im not going to any more dance, i turned down my guy friends that invited me to the Winter Formal cuz i am the only guy that wont have a girl so im not going. Why is it that even though there is 1 guy for 3 girls i still cant find one, is it how i look, this is mehttp://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fus… I only know one girl left at my school that actually is the right type of girl that fights my type of girl, her name is Jessica. She is the biggest sweetheart girl, she like my angel always there for me except last year she went to a dance with a junior football player when she and i are only sophomores. she choose him over me, and got her heart broken by him to. she dyed her her blond for dance for the junior but her original hair color is brunette which she got it changed back to. This is her (the one on the right thats taller and has sun glasses on), http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fus… Is she beautiful? She is the only girl left that is my type. Also is like the only friend I have left after i found out about what alot of my use-to-be-friends did that i disliked them for. Im hoping the next dance that i might get her to go with me cuz she is REALLY the only one left. What do you think? Could i get her to be my first girlfriend? i love her and she really cares about me but im just not sure if she is going want to go with me. i have been turned down so many times i have lost lots of confidence. they say be ready for rejection from some but how are you ready for every girl to say no? I have never had a girlfriend so tell me what do i need to do? any advise with dating? after being turned down so many times im afraid ill end up like the forty year old virgin. i dont want that to happen. Anything i need to know about girlfriends, relationships, dating. Im tired of being alone and have pretty much no life always football/wrestling and school grades that i have never had time so i quit sports and cooling on school so i can get one so i can treat a woman nice and respectful and show that im loving and caring. and im not looking for a one night stand, im not like other people that think its a game and that they need to lose their virginity as soon as possible that they would do it with their friends. im waiting and i hope that if she will be my girlfriend that we will have a great relationship? Anything i need to know?

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Hi and thanks for reading (and answering my question). On Sat, (4/22/09) some acquaintances of mine showed up to my office’s annual marketing event/barbeque with their bfs. They also brought a third guy whom they introduced me to then quickly went away so he and I could “get to know eachother”. I had no idea they were going to do this so of course I was unprepared. The acquaintences asked me out to dinner with their group that night (which included the guy they brought top the event). We were all going to follow one another from the event to the bar/club and since i was following him, he gave me his number in case I got lost. The cars separated and I called him. (This means my number should be in his phone, right?) He and i sat next to eachother and hung out but didn’t get to talk too much because one of the girl acquantances was pretty drunk and kept talking to me about work all night. He was really sweet during dinner, and because he found out I’m a vegetarian, he picked out the chicken from his meal then shared some with me. At the end of the night he walked me to my car and gave me a hug. I reminded him about the concert I’d brought up at dinner (which is this weekend, exactly 1 week from the night we met) and told him to call me if he felt like going to it. No call or any contact yet. What should I do??? I am interested in getting to know him better. I liked him based on the short hours I spent with him. Guys, your input would be really appreciated here. He should have my number and i did say to call me if he wanted to go to the concert but the time is so short now to get tickets…does this mean he’s just not interested? Or, because he gave me his number do you think he wants me to call him? I haven’t dated for a while so I’m not completely up to date on the “rules”… Please advise.

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I feel like a loser writing this but here goes.
I’m almost 16, and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I know that isn’t too unusual, but still. I’ve never kissed anyone, and haven’t even been close to. I’ve never been alone with a guy that way before. I’m no stranger to boys, since I have brothers and I’m used to guys being around. I just wish something would happen. There’s this guy I liked for 3 years, but now we go to different schools. I’ve just started a new school, and I don’t know a lot of the guys, although they seem nice. I’m not necessarily interested in dating them, since I don’t know them that well yet, but how can I get closer to them(like being friends) without seeming desperate or silly? Just starting a conversation and things like that. How can I make them notice me more? Any tips? Is there something you think I should improve in order to make guys notice me more? Nothing superficial though.
Thanks a ton.

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Well, im in high school and haven’t had much of a dating life. I’ve hooked up with a few girls here and there, maybe went out with one or two for a week at most.
But there’s this girl. I have known her for about 2 years, and have gotten to really know her best the last few months. lets call her “L”. I have a friend who ive only known since December, we will call him “G”. I met “G” because he was dating “L”. When i first met him i thought he was w.e, but we became pretty good friends.
I tend to flirt with people just as i would talk to them, its a natural thing for me. I really like “L” and i flirt with her more than i do with others but she usually goes along with it. “L” may not be the most attractive girl in the school, but i care about her, shes funny, and just an all arround great girl.
“G” and “L” broke up recently, and “L” has came to me for some support. So i have two questions.
1. Would it be wrong to date my friends ex, even though he said it would be fine?
2. If it is ok… Should i go for it? Do you think i have a chance? if i do get rejected, do things stay awkward or do things (eventually) go back to normal.
Thanks!

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A better question is do you ever read personal profiles of people who want to date. I guess dating advice is geared to the young and needy and those still unsure of themselves. Anyone older would know each experience is unique in itself and the best advice is to maintain self respect for yourself and not disrespect anybody else in the process. Amazing, but most people do not do that.

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