Posts tagged with “Slow”

Going Too Fast Or Too Slow? Help!! New To Dating!!? Need Advice!?

Monday, 25 January, 2010

I really need help with this whole dating thing.
I’ve never done anything, and he’s done like everything. I’ve had this crush on this guy forever it seems. now randomly we started hanging out n he asked me out. i find myself wanting to avoid him.. when ever i talk to him i feel like i say or do something wrong. when he touches my neck or shoulders, or if he slips his hands around my waist i cringe.. lol, does this make any sense?! I’ve never had a boyfriend.. never wanted to, but since i liked him so much before.. i said yes.
I know i like him, i’m just not used to any of this. i’m used to having guy friends n i dont know how i should act when i’m with him..? i tried to tell him to cut me some slack cuz i’m new to this, n he said he knew i was and that he was trying to take things extra slow so that i would trust him.. but.. this is wierd.. but i got this really creepy feeling when he was telling me this. it’s like, what do u expect me to do with u once i trust u..? i dont know how to explain it…
the whole school knows we’re dating n they think it’s so random since we’re complete opposites. they call him our school’s biggest womanizer..lol, and i’m kinda like a virgin saint, haha. i just feel bad it he’s expecting something more from me, b/c i wont do stuff..
i just need some over all advice.
People come up to me and tell me he seems serious about dating.. i dk, i still dont know how i feel about it. We dont even know each other that well. he wants to hang out all the time, but my parents are really strict.. anyway,
How can i make this all work out? what should i watch out for?
thanks so much for the help! srry if it’s messed up.. :(

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Dating Advice… What Is Too Slow?

Tuesday, 19 January, 2010

Ok I’m dating this woman but quite frankly I think she is a bit odd. I’ve had 3 dates with her. One at a coffee shop and two for dinner. I called her on the phone to see if she wanted to see a movie and get dinner. She said “we hadn’t been going out long enough to see a movie”. WTF? On the second date I went to kiss her and she turned her head. 3rd date I just gave her a hug. I may have a 4th date with her. IF and when I do I’m going to find out if she is super religious or something. I don’t need this BS I’ve had it before. I feel like I’m getting used. For dinner.
So do I have a right to be mad?

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