so monday is me and my gf 1 year anniversary. for it i was going to write her something romantic and special. but i dont know if it should be a poem, a song, a note, or something else. what would i write in it and how would i give it to her. please help.
Ok so lately ive just been really mad at my boyfriend. He never calls me on weekdays, and never really seems like he wants to be with over the weekend. But i know he loves me and he does a lot. But thats not the problem i just feel like he doesnt spend enough time with me, and I really wish he would. And I just get really jealous. I get jealous because of my boyfriends best friend. He is always with his girlfriend. Its like they spend everyday after school together, and their with eachother every weekend. & instead of my boyfriend being with me he always tags along with the. ANd they just ignore him half of the time anyway & act like they dont want him there. My boyfriends best friend even told him he would rather spend more time with his girlfriend then my boyfriend his best friend. And I think I just get really mad and jealous because their all together ALL THE TIME. And im never with my boyfriend, and I just get really mad. So anyone have any advice for me? Please help
so there is this boy in my grade and his not very attractive and he asked me out today and i told him no but i feal really bad and i also Fral bad because i could have been false flirting with him. i am not a big flirt with every guy i see and i was accidental so i don’t know what to so and is always looking at me
Ok, so a little background story of me.
I’m a 14 year old teen. I live in a fairly homophobic European country, but I’m only half European. I was mostly raised in American schools and stuff. I come from a middle to upper class social level. I was 100% sure about 1 year ago that I was gay, but I felt totally alone. So I came out to my old best friend about 6 months ago (we aren’t so close anymore because I started avoiding her cause of her drug problems). So apart from her, I haven’t told anyone else that I’m gay. Many of my friends suspect of course, and even asked me several times, but whenever the topic comes up, I simply from reflex say no. I wanted to come out to everybody but I am scared at what their reaction might be. My mom would cry, but eventually awknowledge that I can’t help being who I am (I overheard my dad and mom discuss it and she said it’s not a choice, but people are just born that way, and my dad said he thinks it’s a choice). My dad would shout and make me feel embarrassed of who I am and would probably ground me untill I “become straight”. My brother would totally accept me. And my friends would be sad (especially the girl ones, cause that means they don’t have a chance with me), but they would love me I think. And the other people…well lets just say they will hate me and call me a ******. So I sometimes have these moments when I want to come out to the whole world, but then I cower up, and I don’t know what to do. I really need some advice on what to do. And I’ve also been so lonely. My brother has his girlfriend, all my friends are hooking up with each other, but not just that, I need a gay guy to just know I’m not alone. There’s like no gay guys here that are out. And I just need ways to find some gay guys..but I think I need to come out and they will start coming towards me. I have had some people add me on msn cause I asked for 14-16 year olds to add me on msn and they all end up to be some 14 year old obese grosse guys who want nothing else but webcam sex. Seriously -.-.
Any tips? And there’s no GSA at my school or anything…it’s a pretty homophobic environment. Any questions or extra details that you need added just ask me.
Thanks! 
I’m a shy, but very nice normal guy (about 5′9″) in my 20s and I’ve always found tall, attractive (blue-eyed) blondes with a great personality and bigger feet than me who likes sports very sexy…since I have blue eyes and like sports….However, I don’t know how to find someone who fits my type since I work late all the time (including weekends) and if I did I wouldn’t know how to approach her without seeming weird…would you be able to help me out????
P.S. I will report those who have smart a$$ comments or guys that have remarks in a queer fashion…seriously.
I used to hang out with this guy, we both liked each other but after a embarrassing drunken hookup (not sex) and personal problems on my side, I told him I didn’t want anything. It’s six months later and I have feelings for him again. They never went away! Very frustrating, but now i’m at a place where I want something out of it. We are flirting again but since i ended it i need to start it. How should I approach this situation? How should I start things up again? I want to start something but not sure how. I’m flustered to say the least. Any advice?
Well, there’s this guy that I like, (lets call him Lili) and I’m pretty sure that he likes me back… (He told me like at the beginning of summer.)
We always talk online. Eveything we say together is online.
But recently, I’ve been feeling a little “iffy” about our relationship…
A month ago, he told me that we couldn’t be “together” because we didn’t know each other well enough, but now he’s saying things like “I want to kiss you…”
Most importantly, is that he isn’t letting anyone know about our relationship because he’ll get in trouble with his parents, which is totally understandable to me, but… Like, some other people found out about me liking him, and I saw “Lili” like sitting with the people making fun of me…
And recently, he’s been saying things like “OMG you’re soo hot…” “you’re so sexy” and then he says something like
“Its so unfair. I always say you’re hot/sexy and all you ever do is say yeah, you too.”
Which is true, but I just don’t like the idea of saying that kind of stuff online. It seems so fake to me, you know?
So I guess my question is, “How should I tell him that I just don’t like saying that kind of stuff online?”
And.. just please give me some advice… I don’t know what to do anymore…
I’m going to the movies this weekend with a guy I like as well as a bunch of our friends. I think he likes me, but sometimes he acts the same way around other girls. How can I find out without being too obvious? Should I try to be more flirtatious at the movies? Or is he just playing the field? Help please!
i’ve been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now, and i know i loved him at some point, though i think it might be starting to fade. I’m going off to college in the fall and i’ll be more than 3 hours away from him. On top of that, i’m starting to like someone else. I don’t necessarily want to give up on this because he’s such a sweet guy, but we’ve been arguing more and i get increasingly annoyed with him, and the spark is fading. should i break it off, or keep it going for now?
K so I’m going out with my best friend who’s a guy and everything is going well. He’s really sweet and seems to have come out of his shell since we started dating. Now I’m only 13 and so is he but, he is kinda a perv and is always flirting with me now. I really like him and he likes me but, a lot of people (including some of my closest friends) say we are a bad couple or they just think its a weird pair up…and I try to ignore them. What are some tips that would be helpful now that we are going out? This is my first serious relationship and its with my best friend. I don’t want to mess this up! Can you help me out?
