Im afraid if I tell her, she will think im weird. How do I explain to my girlfriend that I want to have anal sex with her?
It’s been over a month and a half since me and my friend have started going out and we both want to tell our parents but don’t know how. My parents know I’m bi-sexual and know I’ve dated girls before but since she was my best friend for so long I’m unsure how I should tell my parents that me and her are dating. Any advice?
I met a girl on match.com over a month ago. She seemed very sweet and was adorable. We were chatting and she agreed to go out with me… then the communication went cold.
I found out through Facebook she was dating another girl from the site and just left me hanging, after telling me she’d date me. The other girl is very pretty, but also seems vulgar and obnoxious. It seemed like their personalities would clash because she’s super sweet.
Now their relationship fizzled and a month later, she e-mailed me asking me what’s up & if I want to go out.
Is she acting like I’m her doormat, available when she wants me to be?
Should I be worried she’ll do this again - keep me around until someone else comes along, and ditch me again?
Or am I reading too much into this and being too sensitive? Is this how dating and match.com work? (I have limited experience being from a small town and not being interested in men.)
Do I say anything to her about what happened? Let it go? Not respond at all?
There aren’t any other good lesbians in my small town, which is why I’m inclined to give her a second chance… but do I deserve better than the way she treated me, just ignoring me for a month, then expecting me to be around when she was done with the other girl? Or am I taking this situation too seriously?
I met a girl on match.com over a month ago. She seemed very sweet and was adorable. We were chatting and she agreed to go out with me… then the communication went cold.
I found out through Facebook she was dating another girl from the site and just left me hanging, after telling me she’d date me. The other girl is very pretty, but also seems vulgar and obnoxious. It seemed like their personalities would clash because she’s super sweet.
Now their relationship fizzled and a month later, she e-mailed me asking me what’s up & if I want to go out.
Is she acting like I’m her doormat, available when she wants me to be?
Should I be worried she’ll do this again - keep me around until someone else comes along, and ditch me again?
Or am I reading too much into this and being too sensitive? Is this how dating and match.com work? (I have limited experience being from a small town and not being interested in men.)
Do I say anything to her about what happened? Let it go? Not respond at all?
There aren’t any other good lesbians in my small town, which is why I’m inclined to give her a second chance… but do I deserve better than the way she treated me, just ignoring me for a month, then expecting me to be around when she was done with the other girl? Or am I taking this situation too seriously?
well actually it is something my FATHER says- and my mom as well but not so extreme.
that most guys are liars and cheaters and all they want is to get in a girl’s pants and they will tell her anything to get in her pants, and it is better to not date and wait around on guys and to focus on your school work! because these young boys will give you an std or get you pregnant, and they don’t care. they won’t take care of the child.
And my father always basically even kept my sisters and I away from our uncles and we couldnt go to our friends houses if they had dadas..WOW
I’m 19 now and I feel ike that advice really hurt me. I make a lot of assumptions about all guys I am with and then again I’m kind of trusting because I feel like teh advice I recieved was so extreme that I go against it completely sometimes
well actually it is something my grandmother says- and my mom as well- from like age 13 and up to me, their girl, that most guys are liars and cheaters and all they want is to get in a girl’s pants and they will tell her anything to get in her pants, and it is better to not date and wait around on guys and to focus on your school work! because these young boys will give you an std or get you pregnant, and they don’t care. they won’t take care of the child.