How to get a girlfriend

I met him about a month ago and he was very straighfoward about me being attractive. It wasn’t until last week that we started texting each other, and we’ve been flirting with each other… he implied he wanted to go out on a date and I asked him if he was asking me out on a date and he said yes. We stablished the fact that we are attracted to each other, but have not set a date. I like the guy, but I am afraid to show him that I am extremely interested in him, how do I keep him from losing interest in me?

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Hi all,
Here it goes, I met this interesting guy, we have been dating intensively for 2 months, he has done all the contacting, wooing etc. Life was perfect. Then I had to leave the country to finish my degree, I did tell him during the dating but he still seemed surprised when the time approached.
Anyway while we were together I never pressured him about the relationship, but because I was leaving I wanted to know if we will do LDR or not. So I expressed how I felt, he did not in words but kept coming around everyday the last week - just to spend quality time. Ok last day he asked permission to write to me and keep in touch.
When I went abroad the situation changed with credits etc at my Uni and I transferred my degree back home. I did mentioned to him. Now he did not say anything, few jokes etc. I told him that I miss him/cant wait to see him he said nothing as always. Only that we will see each other when I get back. Still ok.
Since I got back I called him once just to say hi I am back..it was a nice chat, but at the end (he was going on business trip) he said so SHOULD I call you when I come back? I was like sure thing…Anyway I know he is back for 2 days not but no call.
I should be PATIENT I understand but I have not seen him for 3 weeks and I miss him. Also when I was here before he would contact me several times a day. I am also little worried that somehow he feels pressured for relationship by my return now, which I did not intended. That things are not that light as before.
I do not know what to say or do to make him understand that I came back for myself not him and that I want to continue the no pressure dating thing…any advice please?

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I hear that women who are interested in a man are supposed to make themselves look busy and not too available. The consequence of this is to see a man not more than twice a week (at first).
Does this work? Should I do it?

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Alright, so I really like this guy, but he likes another girl. The girl he likes is a total hoe…she flirts with every guy she sees. He has asked her out before and she said she can’t have a boyfriend…excuse maybe?? I think so. So i was just wondering if anyone had any tips about how to get this guy, because I think he might be about ready to give up on this girl. Thanks so much!

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Im 17, I used to be over weight as a kid, and ever since highschool, ive had quite a transformation, i used to be the girl, people had crushes on but wouldnt admit it, now i’m the girl, thats “hot and intimidating” so they stay away people usually think im dating someone, well thats what guys i’ve lucky gotten close to tell me. Anyways, i met this guy online, and we texted for quite sometime, decided we would hang out, and we had alot of chemistry,he told me he liked me, and i did as well, so he calls me baby, and cute things like that, meets my mom, asks me to homecoming, and one day we made plans, he was supposed to call at 2, ended up not calling for a week, he was “grounded”. Next we talk on the phone again he “misses me” and hangs out with a friend of mine, tells her he’s falling for me, and she confesses to me he’s had a gf this whole time, he’s just “using her” and what he really wants is me. what would you do/say, ialready confronted him and he said sorry for not telling me.

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Alright, I’m going out with this girl. She’s got all the qualities that any guy would want in someone. She’s got a great career, intelligent, graduated from a good school, outgoing, and attractive. The only problem is…..I CAN’T SEEM TO FIGURE HER OUT!!
In a nutshell she’s beautiful to look at, fascinating in some ways, but puzzling. I tend to be more confused each time we go out (then again, a lot of things confuse me). She’ll be chatty on the phone then hardly give a word in person. She’ll say we should get together then seem indifferent when you do. Maybe it’s b/c she gets a lot of attention from men so she doesn’t have to try, maybe she’s indecisive, or maybe she’s just playing me.
Can somebody tell me if this girl is worth dating? I’m too confused over her!

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Met this girl through an online dating site, we met for drinks and hit it off. She is gorgeous, smart, successful, and there was definitely chemistry between us. A week later, I took her out to dinner and we had a great time. Didn’t hear from her for a couple of days, called her and asked her if she wanted to get together again. She had plans. Waited five days, called her again (expected a no) but she said she wanted to go out again and we met for dinner. We had an amazing kiss at the end of dinner and I thought things went really well (this was Sunday). And she said she definitely wanted to get together again. Sent her a text when I got home telling her that I had fun. She didn’t respond. I sent her an email about this place I want to take her to this weekend. No response.
Whats going on here? If she isn’t interested, why the long kiss? Why three dates? Why talk about the next date?
Am I being too aggressive by calling/texting? I’m not calling everyday (more like once per 4 days) but I feel like I’m the only one making the effort.
I like her. I’m hoping things continue but I’m confused.
The question now is how best to handle this situation.
Should I tell her that I am getting mixed signals and ask her whats what?
Just not call her and wait for her call/text/email and if she doesn’t then oh well?
Just call her again and tell her about this cool place I want to take her and if she wants to get together this weekend?
Tell her that I am not feeling like she is interested and that I am moving on?
So what does the world think?

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You see in my school, there are two girls I want to ask out. Obviously I’m not gonna ask out both. I know none of you know me but I’ll give some detail. Alright both girls I don’t know very well. In my school I’m averagely popular. Both those girls are popular to an extreme. I’m going to use code names of #1 and #2. Now #1 I’ve known a bit longer the only downside is that she is very loud and yeah you see my point.Now I don’t know how this will be taken by my friends. Now with#2, my not close whatsoever “friend” dated her. Now it was for a short while and i put air quotes around friend because now he ignores me. Now, this has been bugging me for a while I’ve flipped coins which is stupid I know and once had a sleepless night! Anyway, neither one is interested in me no way. I mean I have terible luck when it comes to dating. You’ve read my story now please help out a fellow Yahoo! user. I’ll even answer your questions (I’m good with them)

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I’m getting a lot of mixed signals from a girl I know. We’re both 26 year old college graduates, I’m black, she’s white. I know her through a mutual friend who has been trying to get me to ask her out, but I wasn’t sure if she was into dating a black guy (I already know she has only dated white guys before).
About a month ago, my friend told me she started taking a more serious interest. About two weeks ago, she gave me a ride home from a dinner party, and we ended up making out in the car.
She told me she wanted to be upfront, and that she didn’t want to get into anything too serious, but was interested in hooking up. After a few opinions on YA the other day, I asked her for a bit more clarification on what she was after. She said she wanted to an exclusive relationship, which cleared up some doubts some people had raised on that issue. She then said she wanted to start the relationship off by basing it around sex, and then we’d see what developed.
She is pretty clear she doesn’t want to settle down yet (and neither do I). This girl is very hot, has a good job, and dresses well, but she’s also a bit edgy - she smokes, she’s open about enjoying sex, and she’s even asked if I’m circumcised (she likes her men circumcised, so she says).
Is this something I should get into, or is she just going to take me for a ride?

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im 4teen and never had a gf b4 im not ugly or anything…. i had girls liked me but they were just not rite 4 me… like every1 had a gf or bf in my classs and i feel left out. now im goin into hs like nxt week and i dont know how its gonna turn out… im gonna have 2 get a gf this freshmen year….. any advice??

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