How to get a girlfriend

The girl (23) is very mature for her age, a college grad, has a good job… has been through alot in life… always lived w/father so is def not seeking a parent, she wants to have a family one day and a loving man.
The guy (43) chose the career path after the military in hopes he’d find a wife somewhere along the way… women he’d been with cheated.. he took time to figure himself out and what he wanted and focused on work. now owns a house and has a good stable job and wants a family.
they both agree on many things, life, children, relationships, love, have some of the same friends… The girl is friends with his mother and two brothers, helped move him into his home and set up/organize it. There is a flirtation between them nothing more than friendship… the girl wants to wait till marriage or engagement for sex and the guy knows this… could this become a good relationship/marriage?

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this is my first post on here, I think Y! answers is pretty cool. I have a few dating “guidelines” & it seems to be causing me trouble but I refuse to revise them for a guy - my female friends think otherwise. Here’s the thing, I’m 27, a virgin, college educated and career minded, not really wanting kids, but I would like to get married soon. I believe in God but I’m not a “religious freak.” I wouldn’t live with a guy before I was married unless we were engaged and going to be married in a few months. I want to wait till I’m married to have sex & and I don’t care if my husband to be is a virgin or not as long as he’s honest, faithful, loving & successful. Most of the guys I meet want to have sex after 4 dates b/c that is what most girls in my age group do. I’m not condemning premarital sex, I don’t care what other people do to be honest, but it’s not for me. Also, guys get mad after we have been dating for awhile & I won’t move in with them. What do you think, advice. TY.

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